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Week 13: Would Betty Have Brought Sandwiches?

Posted Tuesday, Nov. 10, 2009, at 1:01 PM ET

Still from Mad Men. Click image to expand.Dear Julia and John,

This entry will be a short one—and my last. In the interests of disclosure, I should say that I'm in Paris this week, on a long-overdue vacation with my wife. We were able to get the episode on iTunes in our hotel room (though curiously, when I left my shoes outside the door, no one polished them). But all claims about Mad Men's significance in our cultural landscape notwithstanding, if I dodge the Louvre for the TV Club one more day, my wife may fly home via Reno.

I'm glad you mentioned that final shot of Betty, Henry, and Eugene, Julia, because Reno raises a series of interesting possibilities for the soon-to-be-former Mrs. Draper. So far, Weiner has chosen to jump ahead in time between each of his seasons. But I hope Season 4 begins with Betty in Nevada. It would be fitting to give her a West Coast interlude to match Don's in Season 2, and to date, Betty has been at her most appealing when the story finds her in a hot climate. The Italian sun seemed to melt some of her Main Line frost and bring out a more carefree, passionate Betty. Maybe Reno will do the same.

And while it's gallant of Henry to fly her out there, I assume he won't be staying long. He has duties in Albany, presumably, and he'll probably be impatient to head back East so he can gossip with his daughter. I mean, is this guy tactless or what? I wouldn't confide even a mildly embarrassing secret to any friend or fellow debutante of Margaret Sterling.

Don suggests that Betty has built herself "a life raft" in Henry Francis, but that's really the last thing she needs. Henry is a good bit older than Don, and while his paternalism may be a comfort to Betty as she steels herself for a divorce, in the long run it will cosset and confine her, indulging the very worst of her infantile sensibilities. My hope is that she and Gene will settle into some motel in Reno; that she'll develop a more age-appropriate love interest on the side; that, perish the thought, she might even find some kind of job. Betty doesn't need a life raft. She needs to learn how to swim.

In fairness to Betty, and contra Caprivi, I think that under the right circumstances, she would absolutely bring sandwiches. Betty's not much of a mom, but when she believed that Don was keeping his end of the compact, she was always a dutiful hostess. (Remember the Heineken dinner party?) I read the sandwiches scene as Don being moved by a simple gesture of kindness and fellowship—the sort of thing that keeps marriages, and upstart companies, intact—and perceiving the truth in Roger's assessment of him: "You're not good at relationships. Because you don't value them."

(If only Roger would apply this newfound psychological acuity to his young wife's budding interest in conspiracy theories. "She's obsessed!" he exclaims. "That's the most interest that girl's ever had in a book depository.")

I completely agree, Julia, that Lane has improbably emerged as one of the best characters on Mad Men. It was the great joke of this season that the lion tamer dispatched by London to take the Yanks in hand was actually something of a cub and that in America Pryce found a freewheeling, meritocratic alternative to fusty, buttoned-up Blighty. (Have either of you seen An Education? The time period is the same, and the film's young heroine seems to share Pryce's sense of England during these years as an oppressive place to be escaped at all costs.)

I love the way Don cajoled Lane with the morbidly evocative suggestion that if he chose to stay on at PPL, "You'll be thrown overboard, and you'll be a corpse knocking against their hull." But before we renew Lane's visa indefinitely, let's see if Sterling is prepared to stop antagonizing the poor chap. "Don't be a stranger," Roger says, with his patented blend of wry chauvinism masquerading as good manners, during the initial buy-out chat with Lane. "We've got tea." And notice Roger's smug little grin when he learns that PPL has cut Lane loose.

John and Julia, this has been enormous fun. Many thanks to both of you for joining me in discussing this fascinating show. Alongside our fellow Maddicts in the Fray, we've dissected each installment with the kind of obsessive curiosity that Jane Sterling reserves for presidential assassinations. And if that's not saying something, what is?

Still, the Parisian sun is peeking through the curtains, and as Pete might say, I have other plans.

À bientôt,
Patrick

Week 13: Would Betty Have Brought Sandwiches?

Posted Tuesday, Nov. 10, 2009, at 1:01 PM ET
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Patrick Radden Keefe is the author of The Snakehead: An Epic Tale of the Chinatown Underworld and the American Dream, which has just been published. John Swansburg is Slate's culture editor. You can e-mail him at and follow him at www.twitter.com/swansburg. Julia Turner is Slate's deputy editor. You can e-mail her at or follow her on Twitter at http://twitter.com/juliaturner.
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Series creator Matthew Weiner has stated he leaves nothing for future seasons and puts everything out there each season, like its the last, and this episode could almost double as a series finale. I think when Mad Men eventually ends its run, there will be discussion whether this episode was the proper series finale and should have called it quits right here, or will Weiner have new and interesting places to take us in season 4?

-- guyroy
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"And the way that they saw themselves is gone." Julia, I think this pretty clearly refers to Peggy having her child and giving it away. Until Peggy told Pete about the baby, Don was only person on the show outside of her family and priest that knew her secret. Don was the one that visited Peggy in the hospital after she gave birth and had been out of work for a while.

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Who's in charge, Betty or Henry? Something that surprised me was the amount of involvement Henry had in Betty's divorce advice. Does it ring true for the period that Henry went to the lawyer with Betty and apparently also knew the lawyer and may have selected the lawyer for Betty? And, when Betty told Don that she would be consulting with a divorce attorney and Don should too, was she simply parroting Henry's words?

Certainly since Henry's divorced he knows the routine and I can understand him giving Betty the benefit of his experience. Last episode Henry was willing to give Betty the time she needed and he would wait. Now, things are fast-tracked to Reno. I'm sure that it's been hard for Betty to continue to live in the same house with Don who continues to deny Betty's feelings. But, seeing Betty sitting in the lawyer's office on the sofa with Henry, reminded me of Betty sitting on the sofa with Glen last season. Then, when Don confronts Betty about Henry, they seem to be having their first real fight.

Anyway, I wonder if Betty/Henry are the 'lasting love' mentioned in the Roy Orbison song at the end.

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I think season 4 will include a serious health issue for Don-perhaps lung cancer. Note the cough at the beginning of the last episode. Also the brief scene when Sterling's dog food heiress old flame states that her first husband died of lung cancer, there is a brief cut to Don lighting up another. Thoughts while I write an order for Don to get a screening cat scan.

-- ldbmd
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