Help! I Found Disturbing Porn on My Boyfriend's Hard Drive.

Advice on manners and morals.
Aug. 8 2012 8:15 AM

Dear Prudence: Porn on the Hard Drive

I found a disturbing video, and now I can't forget it. What should I do?

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In this week's Dear Prudence video, a woman discovers alarming pornography on the hard drive of her otherwise wonderful boyfriend. Should she be worried?

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