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Help! My Husband Just Learned His Family’s Biggest Secret Through a DNA Test.

Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.

Sept. 20 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Envious Heiress
Sept. 19 2018 1:24 PMHelp! I Had to Give My Flaky Friends the Freeze-out—but Now I Really Miss Them.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 18 2018 6:06 AMHelp! My Niece and Nephew Took My Teenage Daughter Out of State to Get an Abortion.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Sept. 13 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Abused Husbands
Sept. 12 2018 1:13 PMHelp! My Friend Can’t Keep a Job. Should I Tell Her That Her Personality Is the Problem?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 11 2018 6:00 AMHelp! I Pulled Strings to Get a Relative an Internship. It Was a Huge Mistake.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Sept. 6 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Breastfeeder’s Husband
Sept. 5 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Done Raising Children” EditionOur daughter wants us to help raise her baby, but we’re retired and plan to move overseas. Help!
Sept. 4 2018 3:52 PMHelp! I Think My Cleaning Lady Stole Some Pain Meds.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Aug. 30 2018 6:00 AMMy Boyfriend Smokes Pot All Day, Every DayPrudie’s column for Aug. 30.
Aug. 29 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Work Talk at Home” EditionMy wife loves talking about her job, but I find it boring. Help!
Aug. 27 2018 2:36 PMHelp! Are We Too Old to Adopt?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Aug. 23 2018 6:00 AMMy Husband Doesn’t Have Any FriendsPrudie’s column for Aug. 23.
Aug. 22 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Leftover Food” EditionHow can I stop my gossipy sister-in-law from embarrassing my neighbor in need? Help!
Aug. 20 2018 3:01 PMHelp! I May Have Accidentally Kidnapped a Cat.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Sept. 20 2018 6:00 AMMy Elderly Father Revised His Will, and His New Girlfriend Is Getting More Than MePrudie’s column for Sept. 20.
Sept. 19 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Unnecessary Shame” EditionI’m in a long-term relationship, but I’m crushing hard on my co-worker. Help!
Sept. 17 2018 4:07 PMHelp! My Son’s Summer Fling Is Pregnant, and I Want Her to Keep the Baby.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Sept. 13 2018 6:00 AMMy Boyfriend Tricked Me Into Becoming Friends With His Other GirlfriendPrudie’s column for Sept. 13.
Sept. 12 2018 12:52 PMDear Prudence: The “Sister Misery” EditionMy sister constantly complains about being an overworked mom but hates when I try to help out. Help!
Sept. 10 2018 3:43 PMHelp! Do I Have to Volunteer at My Kids’ Private School? Isn’t That Why I’m Paying Them?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Sept. 6 2018 6:00 AMMy Husband Just Died. Should I Tell His Family We Were Planning to Divorce?Prudie’s column for Sept. 6.
Sept. 5 2018 6:01 AMHelp! My Roommate Won’t Say Why She Decorated Our Dorm With Photos of Serial Killers.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Aug. 30 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Stoner Boyfriend
Aug. 29 2018 12:00 PMHelp! I’m Getting a Divorce, and My Kid Thinks I’m the Bad Guy.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Aug. 28 2018 5:56 AMHelp! My Sister-in-Law Disowned Her 13-Year-Old Son After He Came Out.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Aug. 23 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: Mega Bed
Aug. 22 2018 1:48 PMHelp! We’re Homebodies Who Feel Like We’re Constantly Disappointing Our Friends.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Aug. 21 2018 6:00 AMHelp! The Son of an Acquaintance Died. Is It Rude to Ask How?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Aug. 16 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Smart One

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