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A Distant Friend Asked Me to Describe My Genitals Over Text

Prudie’s column for Dec. 6.

Dec. 6 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Vicious Boss
Dec. 5 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Always Testing Me” EditionMy boyfriend is insecure and often makes little comments that are hurtful and annoying. Help!
Dec. 3 2018 3:24 PMHelp! I Might Murder My Friend if I Have to Keep Listening to Him Chew.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Nov. 29 2018 6:00 AMMy Wife Wants to Settle Down and Have Kids, but I Don’tPrudie’s column for Nov. 29.
Nov. 28 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Socializing While Sober” EditionI want to take a break from drinking, but I’m scared I’ll lose my friends. Help!
Nov. 26 2018 3:48 PMHelp! I Wish My Workaholic Boyfriend Would Take a Chill Pill.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Nov. 22 2018 6:00 AMMy Husband Wants Us to Host His Violent and Voyeuristic Brother for the HolidaysPrudie’s column for Nov. 22.
Nov. 21 2018 12:00 PMHelp! There’s Another Woman in My Boyfriend’s Life—His Twin Sister.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 20 2018 5:56 AMHelp! My Brother Died and Now I’m Stuck Caring for His Old Dog.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Nov. 15 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Angry Neighbor
Nov. 14 2018 7:30 AMDear Prudence: The “Animal Husbandry” EditionMy spouse’s recent obsession with collecting rare animals has gotten out of hand. Help!
Nov. 13 2018 6:00 AMMy Parents Think a Heart Attack Killed My Sister. Should I Tell Them She Overdosed?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Nov. 8 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: Babies Everywhere
Nov. 7 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Cousin Is Taking Advantage of My Mom to Get Free Child Care.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 6 2018 8:15 AMDear Prudence Live ChatFor Nov. 12, 2018.
Dec. 5 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Cisgender Partner Keeps Misgendering Me.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 4 2018 6:00 AMHelp! I’m Worried My Engagement Ring Is Cursed.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Nov. 29 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Therapist and the Boyfriend
Nov. 28 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Father-in-Law Spams My Group Chat All Day and It’s Wearing Meme Out.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 27 2018 6:00 AMHelp! I Love to Hike Alone. My Boyfriend Thinks I’m Being Reckless.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Nov. 22 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Churlish Gifter
Nov. 21 2018 3:49 PMHelp! My Dad Is Making Brisket for Thanksgiving and I Don’t Know What to Bring as a Side.Slate’s Jamelle Bouie takes over for a special holiday-themed Prudie.
Nov. 21 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Nixed Nuptials” EditionMy fiancé’s family forced us to call off our wedding, but I still love him. Help!
Nov. 19 2018 4:11 PMHelp! I’m in a Happy Hetero Marriage, but I’m Also Bisexual. Can I Stay in the Closet?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Nov. 15 2018 6:00 AMThe Men Never Help With Thanksgiving CleanupPrudie’s column for Nov. 15.
Nov. 14 2018 5:58 AMHelp! My Fiancé Won’t Stop Making “Jokes” About How I’m Cheating on Him.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 12 2018 3:05 PMHelp! If I Refuse to Get a Flu Shot, I Won’t Be Allowed to See My New Grandkid. Seriously?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Nov. 8 2018 6:00 AMMy Wife Is Dying. Does That Mean I Have to Be Lonely?Prudie’s column for Nov. 8.
Nov. 7 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Enough is Enough” EditionMy husband gaslights me and makes me feel unloved. Help!
Nov. 6 2018 6:00 AMHelp! My Sister Thinks I’m Ruining Thanksgiving Because I Hired a Caterer.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.

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