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Help! My Husband Is Having Sex With Our Marriage Counselor.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Call 311” EditionI bought my son’s girlfriend a pregnancy test and her mom found out. Help!
Runaway Pre-BridePrudie advises a letter writer who is fortysomething, wants to marry, but never likes a guy for more than a year.
Three PigsMy brother-in-law set me up to be sexually assaulted by his friend, and my husband doesn’t care.
Help! My Boyfriend’s Friends Are Racist Bullies. Should I Dump Him?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Resignation” EditionMy parents expect me to be their free marriage counselor. Help!
Last-Minute ArrivalPrudie counsels a woman who left her child-free ex, only to find out she’s pregnant with his child.
Help! I Told My Mom About My Depression. Now She’s Having a Breakdown.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Cat-astrophe” EditionMy wife says I love our cat more than her, and I think she might be right. Help!
Great ExpectationsPrudie advises a woman whose husband thinks it’s fine that she works and does all the parenting.
Undercover LoverPrudie counsels a man whose wife wants him to get a girlfriend, but only if it’s kept secret.
Help! I Was Depressed and Neglected My Personal Hygiene. Do I Owe My Boss an Apology?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Workplace Hazard” EditionMy slovenly employee keeps getting the whole staff sick. Help!
One for the MoneyPrudie advises a man who can’t convince his husband to return to his stressful but lucrative career.
Help! My Boyfriend Wants to Keep Our Relationship a Secret—Forever.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Death of the Ego” EditionHelp! How do I tell my friends and family I’m upset they bailed on my big birthday?
Worth the WeightPrudie advises a letter writer whose friend became very attractive after losing 100 pounds.