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For May 9, 2016.

May 3 2016 8:14 AMUnder CoverPrudie counsels a woman who doesn’t want to tell her fiancé she slept in the same bed as a friend.
May 2 2016 2:44 PMYou Don’t Have to Buy Wedding Gifts, Prudie DecreesDear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 26 2016 8:53 AMMan of My Middling DreamsPrudie counsels a woman marrying her unsupportive boyfriend just so she can have a family.
April 25 2016 5:14 PMHelp! Should I Tell My Friend That She’s Not a Virgin?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 19 2016 8:25 AMThumbs DownPrudie counsels a letter writer whose husband won’t stop picking up hitchhikers.
April 18 2016 3:06 PMHelp! I Found Out My Sister Is About to Lose Her House. Should I Tell Her I Know?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 12 2016 9:46 AMPay to PlayPrudie counsels a letter writer whose ex-boyfriend is offering money to hang out again.
April 11 2016 4:36 PMHelp! I Told My Niece to Hide Her Tattoos and Piercings at Work. Am I Body-Shaming Her?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 5 2016 6:02 AMWhich Team’s Player?Prudie counsels a woman who wants to date a possibly straight female co-worker.
April 4 2016 3:17 PMHelp! I Feel Like a ’50s Housewife. How Can I Get My Husband to Do His Share of the Chores?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 29 2016 6:15 AMExposedPrudie counsels a man who discovered videos of his boyfriend on a porn site.
March 28 2016 3:32 PMHelp! I’m Going to the Same College as an Awful High School Classmate. How Do I Shake Her?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 22 2016 8:35 AMGone From the ChapelPrudie counsels a woman who wants out of her marriage and her church—where her husband’s the pastor.
March 21 2016 3:50 PMHelp! My Mother-in-Law Keeps Starting Drunken Arguments With My Son.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 16 2016 7:00 AMEven if It Kills MePrudie counsels a man whose wife almost died in childbirth yet wants another baby.
May 2 2016 2:48 PMI Spy With My Leering EyePrudie advises a letter writer who can’t skinny dip without being watched by the neighbor’s kids.
April 28 2016 6:00 AMI Won’t Be Your Father FigureMy boyfriend raised my twins but won’t let them call him “Dad.”
April 25 2016 5:15 PMLost to LustPrudie advises a woman who kicked her husband out for masturbating to a friend’s photo.
April 21 2016 6:00 AMThe Silent SexualityI’m bisexual, but my wife doesn’t want me to talk about it. 
April 18 2016 3:09 PMKitty KillerPrudie advises a letter writer whose husband considers putting the cat to sleep an act of murder.
April 14 2016 10:48 AMBaby, BumpedMy husband refuses to have sex with me while I’m pregnant.
April 11 2016 4:36 PMAll Dogs Go to Heaven AnywayPrudie advises a letter writer whose husband shot the neighbor’s dogs.
April 7 2016 9:30 AMHow Sweet It Almost WasThe man I loved for years has admitted he loved me too—but now we’re married to other people.
April 4 2016 3:40 PMSwipe WrongPrudie advises a woman who hasn’t told her Tinder fling-turned-boyfriend that she has a child.
March 31 2016 8:33 AMTry, Try AgainI haven’t been able to have a second child, but my husband won’t give up.
March 28 2016 3:36 PMSo What Am I So Afraid Of?Prudie advises a letter writer who has yet to share “I love yous” after a year of dating.
March 24 2016 6:00 AMSibling AnxietyMy 8-year-old nephew is bullied by his brother—and it’s killing his spirit.
March 21 2016 3:51 PMFunny BonesPrudie advises a man who can’t forgive his fiancée for joking about his dead parents.
March 17 2016 6:00 AMWigged OutMy sister demanded that I dye my hair for her wedding. But I wore a wig instead.
March 15 2016 3:54 PMZeroPrudie advises a woman whose boyfriend is nice to her son but says she’s “only an 8.5.”

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