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From Worm to Book

My husband cheated on me while I was pregnant, and now I just read when he’s around.

April 19 2017 2:56 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor April 24, 2017.
April 18 2017 9:15 AMNo BacksiesPrudie counsels a man who told his wife he hoped she miscarried, but now loves their child.
April 17 2017 3:03 PMHelp! Should I Tell My Siblings Why They’re Not Invited on My Group Vacation?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 12 2017 7:45 AMDear Prudence: The “Anti-Pronoun” EditionAdvice for a writer about gender-neutral pronouns and the singular “they.”
April 10 2017 4:01 PMQueer Is as Queer Does?Prudie advises a letter writer whose friend says she’s queer but is married to a man.
April 6 2017 6:00 AMClose to the ChestHow do I tell dates I’ve had a double mastectomy in my 20s?
April 4 2017 6:00 AMWatch That First StepPrudie counsels a letter writer who may have caused a woman to get hit by a car.
April 3 2017 3:10 PMHelp! Why Does My Boyfriend Have So Many Wet Dreams?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 29 2017 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Raise the Bar” Edition, Part 1My dormmate lets his loud alarm ring for hours every morning. Help!
March 27 2017 3:40 PMTerm’s UpPrudie advises a letter writer whose son by a first marriage is a waste of tuition money.
March 23 2017 6:00 AMAunt RemovalI want to evict my mother’s sister after my mother dies.
March 21 2017 6:00 AMGhost BusterPrudie advises a letter writer who’s annoyed by a friend who leaves parties without saying goodbye.
March 20 2017 2:40 PMHelp! A Friend’s Wedding Is the Same Day as My Son’s Birthday.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 15 2017 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “P.S.A.” EditionThe women in my office always leave pee on the toilet seat. Help!
March 13 2017 3:12 PMHand in HandPrudie advises a letter writer whose wife doesn’t know he masturbates with other men.
April 19 2017 7:45 AMDear Prudence: The “Dickensian” EditionMy sibling insists she suffered an abusive childhood that I just don’t remember. Help!
April 17 2017 3:50 PMOn the Third Day He Will Bring EggsPrudie advises a letter writer who refused to pretend the Easter Bunny is real—and got accused of being anti-Christian.
April 13 2017 6:00 AMOh, LordeMy wife has really dumb ideas for naming our daughter.
April 11 2017 9:21 AMBlinged RingPrudie counsels a letter writer whose fiancé spent a year’s salary on an engagement diamond.
April 10 2017 4:00 PMHelp! How Do I Break Up With My Best Friend?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 5 2017 7:15 AMDear Prudence: The “Raise the Bar” Edition, Part 2I like my husband’s kids more than my own. Help!
April 3 2017 3:53 PMThe Heart Will Go On or ElsePrudie advises a letter writer whose aunt won’t stop asking if Dad has started dating again.
March 30 2017 6:00 AMWill Work for HireI am a recent grad, went on 30 interviews, but can’t get a job.
March 28 2017 8:39 AMLove of a Good ManhandlerPrudie counsels a letter writer whose boyfriend thinks he can cure claustrophobia with a squeeze.
March 27 2017 3:35 PMHelp! My Girlfriend Wants to Get Married, but I’m Not Ready.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 22 2017 7:11 AMDear Prudence: The “Voyagers” EditionIf I leave my narcissistic husband, does that put our children at risk?
March 20 2017 3:10 PMBefore the Ink Is DryPrudie counsels a letter writer who wants a divorce instead of matching tattoos.
March 16 2017 6:00 AMPreaching to the ConvertedPrudie advises a letter writer whose brother hasn’t told his girlfriend he came out as gay.
March 14 2017 6:15 AMSickoPrudie advises a letter writer whose “friend” faked an illness to spend time together.
March 13 2017 3:05 PMHelp! My Crazy In-Laws Are Making Me Throw a Wedding I Don’t Want.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.

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