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Office Toilet Paper DramaMy co-workers blow through bathroom materials and even leave the water running.
Sad Birthday to YouPrudie counsels a letter writer whose girlfriend wants to disinvite a grieving party guest.
Better Left UnsaidPrudie counsels a letter writer who kept a brother’s suicide note secret from their parents.
My Mommy Lies Over the OceanPrudie advises a recent mother whose work travel would mean leaving her baby for three months.
Show and TellPrudie counsels a letter writer who “played doctor” as a kid, but whose fiancée thinks it was abuse.
Bloody RelationsMy father was murdered when I was a child. Then I found out my uncle may have been the killer.
Sleeping on the JobPrudie counsels a woman who wonders if having sex with the boss long ago taints her current success.
Here Come the BridesPrudie advises a woman whose future mother-in-law also wants to wear her wedding dress at the wedding.
Should I Reconcile With My Terrible Father?Dear Prudence calls in on The Gist to counsel a letter writer.
From Bat to WorsePrudie counsels a college student whose bad year has included being bitten by a bat and charged with solicitation.
Run-at-the-Mouth Dental HygienistThe woman who cleans my teeth won’t stop asking me personal questions.
He Said/She SaidPrudie advises a letter writer not sure how to converse with a male neighbor whenever he dresses as a woman.
Stroke of MidnightPrudie advises a letter writer whose wife not only precludes sex if it gets too late—she takes care of herself instead.