Danielle Selber of Tribe 12: How does a Jewish matchmaker work?

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July 19 2015 2:02 AM

The “How Does a Matchmaker Work?” Edition

In an age of online dating, Danielle Selber finds love connections the old-fashioned way for Jewish singles in Philadelphia.

Danielle Selber of the Philadelphia-based Tribe 12 makes love co
Danielle Selber of the Philadelphia-based Tribe 12 makes love connections between Jewish singles. Her matchmaking begins with coffee.

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Listen to this episode of Working with guest Danielle Selber.

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If you’re a single person who has struck out online or is too busy to jump into the dating pool, Danielle Selber wants to have coffee with you. She’s a matchmaker with Tribe 12, a Jewish nonprofit in Philadelphia. Host Aisha Harris met Selber in coffee shop to talk about her job, the history of matchmaking in Jewish culture, and what it takes to find the perfect match in the digital age. Plus, Aisha answers a few of Selber’s typical coffee questions.

In a Slate Plus extra, get advice from Selber on what makes a great first date. (A hint: Dinner’s no good, and drinks probably aren’t either.) If you’re not a member, enjoy bonus segments and interview transcripts from Working, plus other great podcast exclusives. Start your two-week free trial at slate.com/workingplus.

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Aisha Harris is a Slate culture writer and host of the Slate podcast Represent.