Mom and Dad Are Fighting: Foster parenting and letting kids mess up their chores.

Let Your Children Mess Up Their Chores—It’s a Good Thing

Let Your Children Mess Up Their Chores—It’s a Good Thing

Slate's parenting podcast.
Sept. 24 2015 9:30 AM

Mom and Dad Are Fighting: The Two Truths and a Lie Edition

Listen to Slate’s parenting podcast on foster parenting and making a mess with your children.

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In this week’s edition of Slate’s parenting podcast Mom and Dad Are Fighting, Slate editors Allison Benedikt and Dan Kois talk to Meghan Moravcik Walbert, writer of the Foster Parent Diary on the New York Times’ Motherlode blog. Then, Jessica Lahey, author of The Gift of Failure, joins the show to discuss encouraging kids to help out around the house—even if they make a mess. Plus, listeners’ suggestions for how to ask your kids about their day (without actually asking) and parenting triumphs and fails.

This week on Slate Plus, Slate politics editor Will Dobson shares a wife-keeping-her-maiden-name fail.

Items discussed in the show:

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Also, here is an important video of the dog wedding that recently occurred inside Slate’s New York office, despite Allison’s children’s disbelief:

Mom and Dad recommend:

Allison recommends this Paper Jamz guitar, which plays “(Don’t Fear) The Reaper” by Blue Oyster Cult.

Dan recommends his family’s original game, Ace of Hates. Here’s a deck of cards you can play it with.

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Mom and Dad Are Fighting is coming to Washington, D.C.! Join us Tuesday, Oct. 20, at 7 p.m. for a live podcast recording at Woolly Mammoth Theater. We’ll be joined by John Dickerson of the Political Gabfest (and CBS’ Face the Nation), plus other special guests. Get your tickets here!

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Podcast produced by Ann Heppermann. Our intern is Jessie Chasan-Taber.

Allison Benedikt is Slate’s executive editor. Follow her on Twitter.

Dan Kois edits and writes for Slate’s culture department. He is writing a book called How to Be a Family and co-writing, with Isaac Butler, an oral history of Angels in America.