This week, Farhad Manjoo and Emily Yoffe debate the question: Should you tell a cheater’s significant other about his extracurricular activities via Facebook, especially if you’re the one he cheated with? This week’s letter writer found her hook-up’s girlfriend on the site and now wonders whether she should spill the beans.

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