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This week, Farhad Manjoo and Emily Yoffe debate the etiquette of saying you want to be more than just friends via Facebook message. Listen to Episode 5 using the audio player below or by opening this player in a new window.

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How Late Is Too Late to Text?
Can I Split a Check With Groupon?
Can I Use My Phone at a Dinner Party?
Should I Return a Missed Call?

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