Dear Prudence podcast: The “Eternally Engaged” edition.

Help! My Fiancé Keeps Finding Ways to Cancel Our Wedding.

Help! My Fiancé Keeps Finding Ways to Cancel Our Wedding.

Advice on manners and morals.
Jan. 3 2018 8:00 AM

Dear Prudence: The “Eternally Engaged” Edition

My fiancé has been putting off our wedding for five years. Help!

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Photo illustration by Slate. Image by Thinkstock.

This week, we’ve got another batch of some of our trickiest questions of the past year.

  • I’ve been engaged for five years with no wedding in sight.
  • What do I say to strangers who tell me I’m “not dark enough” to be from my home country?
  • Can I date my ex-stepbrother?
  • I’m terrified of the doll my wife made for our kid—can I say something?
  • My husband gets furious when I talk about bodily functions at the dinner table—should I stop?

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