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Sins of the Father

I’m Mexican American. My dad is a white supremacist. Do I have to talk to him?

April 19 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Cuckold
April 18 2018 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Expensive Bulk Food Grazer” EditionMy friend grabbed handfuls of nuts at the store and ate them without paying. Help!
April 17 2018 8:00 AMHelp! My Dad Is Dying a Slow and Awful Death, and My Siblings Aren’t Around to Help.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
April 13 2018 12:00 PMHelp! A Pushy Date Is Moving Too Fast. How Do I Rebuff Him Without Making It Awkward?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 12 2018 6:00 AMKeeping an Eye on HerMy daughter is a freshman in college. My wife insists on tracking her location at all times.
April 11 2018 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Mommy Moocher” EditionMy carpool and child care group keeps picking up the slack for one mom. What should we do? Help!
April 5 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Pushy Matchmakers
April 4 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Do I Have to Spend Holidays With My Partner’s Ex-Wife?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 3 2018 8:00 AMHelp! My Wife Just Had a Baby. How Should I Tell Her I Want an Open Relationship?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
March 29 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Immature Boss
March 28 2018 12:30 PMHelp! My Biological Mom Wants Me to Disown My Adoptive Mom.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 27 2018 8:20 AMHelp! My Friend Acts Like He’s Playing Devil’s Advocate—but Maybe He’s Just Racist?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
March 22 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Defensive BossDear Prudence Uncensored: The Defensive Boss
March 21 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Why Is He Confiding in Me? I Don’t Even Like Him.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 20 2018 7:56 AMHelp! My Roommate’s Wealthy Parents Want to Pay Me to Stay Friends With Their Daughter.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
April 18 2018 12:06 PMHelp! Should I Tell My Roommate That I Can Hear Him Having Sex?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 17 2018 9:00 AMDear Prudence Live ChatFor April 23, 2018.
April 16 2018 3:55 PMHelp! My Heterosexual Daughter Is Dating a Trans Man.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
April 12 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Underage Tinderer
April 11 2018 8:33 AMHelp! What if My Prospective Boss Finds Out That I’m a Former Sex Worker?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
April 10 2018 3:42 PMHelp! My Toddler Found Grandma’s Sex Toys.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
April 5 2018 6:00 AMTight QuartersI’m a 30-year-old woman, and my parents expect me to share a bed with my brother.
April 4 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Wizard Privilege” EditionMy wife often makes classic book protagonists female. I’m worried our daughter will be confused when she reads them herself. Help!
April 2 2018 3:03 PMHelp! I’m Terrified That My Mental Illness Is Going to Ruin My Relationship.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
March 29 2018 6:00 AMNo Laughing MatterMy boss made fun of my hearing loss.
March 28 2018 8:30 AMDear Prudence: The “Falling for My Co-Parent” EditionI took over custody of my sister’s son, and now I think I’m in love with his father. Help!
March 26 2018 3:24 PMHelp! My Friends’ Kid Spilled Juice on My Expensive Laptop. Do They Owe Me a New One?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
March 22 2018 6:00 AMBi, Bi, BabyHow can I tell the women I date that I’m bisexual?
March 21 2018 8:30 AMDear Prudence: The “Spousal Acknowledgement” EditionMy husband wasn’t helpful as I was writing my first book. Do I need to include him in the acknowledgements? Help!
March 19 2018 2:57 PMHelp! A Nasty Co-Worker Is Trying to Get Me Fired.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.

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