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Dear Prudence Uncensored: The Good Ex-Wife

May 24 2018 6:00 AMPlus NoneI’m terrified my partner’s transphobic parents will out him at our wedding.
May 23 2018 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Poly Wedding Invite Etiquette” EditionI don’t like the couple that my two good friends are dating—do I need to invite them to my wedding too? Help!
May 21 2018 3:24 PMHelp! My Boyfriend Implied That I Shouldn’t Have Children Because I’ve Struggled With Addiction.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
May 17 2018 6:00 AMCrushedI told my friend I had feelings for her, and she told me she wasn’t interested. Years later, I’m still not over her.
May 16 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “I Wanna Kidnap a Dog” EditionMy family won’t get their dog fixed. Can I take it to the vet myself, without their permission? Help!
May 14 2018 7:41 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor May 29, 2018.
May 14 2018 2:00 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor May 14, 2018.
May 10 2018 6:00 AMForever Hold Your PeaceI’m afraid my mother is going to disrupt my friend’s wedding.
May 9 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Women Are Too Distracting” EditionA man ended his close friendship with me because I’m a woman. I’m upset, but is there anything I can do? Help!
May 7 2018 5:14 PMDear Prudence: I Ran Over and Killed My Neighbor’s Toddler. I’m Overcome With Guilt.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
May 3 2018 6:00 AMKeep It CleanMy roommate wants me to stop showering with my boyfriend—because it makes him think about us having sex.
May 2 2018 11:14 AMDear Prudence: The “Inspector Javert of Office Meatballs” EditionMy co-worker gobbles up all our communal food—can I say something without embarrassing him? Help!
April 30 2018 3:26 PMHelp! We Got Married, Then He Dumped Me. Do I Have to Finish the Thank-You Notes?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
April 26 2018 6:00 AMPregnancy ProblemsMy mother and I are both expecting—and I can’t help resenting her for it.
April 25 2018 8:00 AMHelp! My Boyfriend of Six Months Blindsided Me With a Large, Public Proposal.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 23 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Girlfriend Loves Rescuing Animals, but It’s Ruining Her Relationships—Including Ours.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 22 2018 7:32 AMHelp! Is It Gauche to Plan My Own 30th Birthday Party?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
May 17 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Angry Wedding Guest
May 16 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Am I Queer Enough to Identify Myself as Queer on My Grad School Application?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 15 2018 8:40 AMHelp! How Do I Get My Otherwise Great Therapist to Stop Telling Me About His Sex Life?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
May 14 2018 3:31 PMHelp! Our 50-Year-Old Friend Says He’s Fallen in Love With Our 19-Year-Old Daughter.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
May 10 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: Virgin Bikini Wax
May 9 2018 11:45 AMHelp! I Took a DNA Test and the Results Turned My World Upside Down.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 8 2018 8:36 AMHelp! It’s Annoying When My Hypersensitive LGBTQ Friends Make Fun of My “Vanilla” Sex Life.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
May 3 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Intrusive Roommate
May 2 2018 12:30 PMHelp! Should I Tell the People Who Sexually Assaulted Me They’re at Risk for Chlamydia?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 1 2018 8:00 AMHelp! Why Do My Girlfriends Always Think I’m Still in Love With My Ex-Wife?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
April 26 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Mother-Daughter Pregnancies
April 25 2018 12:00 PMDear Prudence: The “Calculated Incursion on My Workplace” EditionMy friend keeps applying for open positions at my company but hasn’t asked if it’s OK with me. Help!
April 24 2018 8:14 AMHelp! My Friends’ Triumphs Make Me Feel Like I’m Falling Behind in Life.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.

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