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Dear Prudence: The “Open It Up” EditionDo I need to tip every time an iPad gives me those pre-programmed options? Help!
I Blamed the VictimPrudie counsels a letter writer who regrets badmouthing a friend after she was molested.
Help! My 19-Year-Old Nanny Has Been Exercising in Our Home in Her Underwear.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Bidet and Boujee” EditionNow that we own a bidet, my boyfriend refuses to buy toilet paper for the house. Help!
Past DuePrudie advises a letter writer on whether it’s time to end a relationship with a pregnant married couple.
Help! My Closeted Ex Pretends We Never Even Dated.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Time to Get Away?Prudie advises a letter writer whose husband has very different opinions on how to vacation.
Help! My Friend’s a Belligerent Alcoholic, and She Wants an Invite to My Birthday Party.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Great ExpectationsPrudie advises a woman whose husband thinks it’s fine that she works and does all the parenting.
Undercover LoverPrudie counsels a man whose wife wants him to get a girlfriend, but only if it’s kept secret.
No Embryos for YouPrudie advises a mother who wants to help her brother have a baby—but not if it means she’ll also have to help her sister-in-law.
Help! I Hate Telling People My Husband “Passed Away.” Can’t I Just Tell It Like It Is?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Good Neighbors, Bad ReligionPrudie advises a letter writer whose kind neighbors help with the kids but think Halloween is devil-worshipping.
Dear Prudence: The “Capitalism Is the Problem” EditionMy husband loves being a stay-at-home dad, but our friends make fun of him. Help!
Help! My Husband Is Having Sex With Our Marriage Counselor.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Call 311” EditionI bought my son’s girlfriend a pregnancy test and her mom found out. Help!
Runaway Pre-BridePrudie advises a letter writer who is fortysomething, wants to marry, but never likes a guy for more than a year.