Dear Prudence podcast: The “Panoply of Deviance” edition.

Help! How Do I Get My Prudish Partner to Get Kinky?

Help! How Do I Get My Prudish Partner to Get Kinky?

Advice on manners and morals.
Aug. 9 2017 7:15 AM

Dear Prudence: The “Panoply of Deviance” Edition

I’m in love with a prude—how do I spice up our sex life? Help!

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Writer, commentator, and professor Roxane Gay joins Prudie this week for your questions! How do I avoid matching with my students on online dating apps? My boss won’t stop telling me to smile. Should I report the places my ex-husband frequented for sex for human trafficking? I’m in love with a prude—how do I spice up our sex life? I just found out I have a 6-year-old son and I’m furious with his mother’s choices. And finally: How do I get my kids to be better at saving money; should I force them to move home? Plus, an update on a past letter.

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