Ask a Homo: Butch and femme for beginners. (VIDEO.)
Butch and Femme for Beginners. (Video.)
Expanding the LGBTQ Conversation
July 29 2014 11:50 AM

Ask a Homo: Butch and Femme 


Welcome back to Ask a Homo, a judgment-free zone where the gays of Outward answer questions about LGBTQ politics, culture, etiquette, language, and other queer conundrums. Today a reader inquires about roles: Do lesbian relationships always involve one partner who’s masculine of center and another who’s more feminine?

If there are questions you’ve been dying to ask a member of the real rainbow coalition, this is your chance. Send your queries—for publication—to, and please put “ASK A HOMO” in the subject line. Note that questions may be edited.


June Thomas is a Slate culture critic and editor of Outward, Slate’s LGBTQ section. 

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