Dear Prudence

Dear Prudence: The “Nosy, Desk-Searching Boss” Edition

How do I stop my boss from rummaging through my stuff whenever I’m not around? Help!

Prudence is joined by Justine D’Souza, a phone support counselor for a youth helpline. First, a few work problems: I’m currently looking for a job—do I need to disclose my health problems during the interview process? My boss searches my desk and email whenever I step out. Then, I love my trans partner, but no longer feel attracted to them. And lastly, my bored husband acts as though I’m supposed to coordinate his life.

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