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Week 11: Betty Draper Would Have Made a Great Lawyer

Posted Monday, Oct. 26, 2009, at 10:10 AM ET

I agree, Julia—"the talk" was masterfully written and acted. I'm not sure I'm ready to bestow Clooney status on Jon Hamm, but he did show me something this week. Don is so preternaturally cool, it's been hard to gauge Hamm's range. (Last year's comic cameos on 30 Rock and SNL were inconclusive—he was basically just making fun of Don Draper.) But Hamm was outstanding this week. Caught in his biggest lie, Don is rendered incapable of lighting his own cigarette. He gulps his Canadian Club with none of the suavity we've become accustomed to over the last three years. You could hear him laboring for breath as his world came down around him.

In the current issue of the Atlantic, Benjamin Schwarz condemns January Jones as a casting mistake, but Jones too was impressive this week, demonstrating deep anger toward her husband and then, later, a measure of pity and maybe even acceptance, if not quite forgiveness. Betty the character impressed me, too: She may have applied her training in anthropology to piece together Don's secret, but what struck me most was her sharp lawyering. Betty wins a pretrial hearing over the admissibility of the box of secrets. (Don's lame contention that his desk is private—illegal search!—doesn't hold up for a minute.) And eventually, she elicits as full a confession from Donald Draper as anyone ever has. "The talk" itself felt like a cross-examination of a hostile witness. As you noted, Julia, when Don tries to fudge the date of his divorce, Betty calls him on it without consulting the evidence—she's committed it to memory. She even sounds like a hard-nosed litigator. After Don asks when he was supposed to reveal his secret, she snaps, "You don't get to ask any questions." When baby Gene forces Betty to temporarily adjourn the proceedings, she warns her husband "We're not done." Somebody's been watching The Defenders.

But Betty's lack of expertise in black letter law did seem to hamstring her in one respect. Forced to consult her father's lawyer for advice, Betty receives what seemed to me like suspect counsel. I have no doubt that New York state divorce law favored men at the time, but Betty's options can't be as limited as Gene's lawyer made them out to be. As Betty forces Don to admit, he broke the law in assuming the identity of his fallen commanding officer. Never mind divorce—couldn't Betty have the marriage annulled, on the grounds that Don defrauded her? The man Betty thought she married isn't the man she actually married. A lawyer with a slightly more progressive outlook than Milton might have asked a few more questions before telling his client to "go home, give it a try."

In Milton's defense, Betty didn't quite convey to him the severity of Don's actions. Was this because she didn't fully understand Don's lie before interrogating him? Because she didn't have the legal savvy to know which details were important? Or because she's not ready to become a single mother of three, to give up her edge over her petulant brother with regards to their father's house, to become the Helen Bishop of some new neighborhood? As you noted, Julia, the end of the episode suggested that Betty is going to give it a try, and I don't think it's just out of fear of being on her own. When Don finally told Betty the truth about his childhood, Betty seemed to feel real sympathy for what he endured as a child. And as overwhelming as the discovery of Don's secret clearly was to Betty, she must also have felt some degree of relief. Finally, an explanation for why her husband is the way he is: his dark moods, his unwillingness to talk about his past, even his inability, apparently, to handle the household finances.

(Though you're totally right, Julia, that it broke the show-don't-tell rule, I kind of loved the "Who are you supposed to be?" line. Every now and then the real world delivers an accidental bon mot like this, plus I thought it was totally believable coming out of the mouth of Francine's silly husband. As for Bobby dressing up like a hobo, that felt a bit much …)

Patrick, do you think Don has gotten rid of Miss Farrell this easily? She seemed very understanding on the phone—too understanding. I'm no fan of Miss Farrell, and I'd be pleased to see her go, as, I'm sure, would Don's cardiologist—pasta with cream and butter and cheese? But something tells me we haven't seen the last of her long curly hair, gold stars, and NESCAC jogging gear.

As for the writers' decision to have "Dr." Greg Harris be the first Mad Men character set on a direct course for Hamburger Hill, Vietnam—well, it couldn't have happened to a nicer guy. That said, I was of two minds about the vase. On the one hand, it was undeniably cathartic—what fan of this series hasn't been rooting for this guy to be smacked upside the head? On the other hand, it was a little Three Stooges. Here's hoping that Greg gets shipped off to an active theater sooner rather than later, and the peace talks between Joan and Roger continue apace.

Avec plaisir,
John

Week 11: Betty Draper Would Have Made a Great Lawyer

Posted Monday, Oct. 26, 2009, at 10:10 AM ET
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Patrick Radden Keefe is the author of The Snakehead: An Epic Tale of the Chinatown Underworld and the American Dream, which has just been published. John Swansburg is Slate's culture editor. You can e-mail him at and follow him at www.twitter.com/swansburg. Julia Turner is Slate's deputy editor. You can e-mail her at or follow her on Twitter at http://twitter.com/juliaturner.
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Series creator Matthew Weiner has stated he leaves nothing for future seasons and puts everything out there each season, like its the last, and this episode could almost double as a series finale. I think when Mad Men eventually ends its run, there will be discussion whether this episode was the proper series finale and should have called it quits right here, or will Weiner have new and interesting places to take us in season 4?

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"And the way that they saw themselves is gone." Julia, I think this pretty clearly refers to Peggy having her child and giving it away. Until Peggy told Pete about the baby, Don was only person on the show outside of her family and priest that knew her secret. Don was the one that visited Peggy in the hospital after she gave birth and had been out of work for a while.

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Who's in charge, Betty or Henry? Something that surprised me was the amount of involvement Henry had in Betty's divorce advice. Does it ring true for the period that Henry went to the lawyer with Betty and apparently also knew the lawyer and may have selected the lawyer for Betty? And, when Betty told Don that she would be consulting with a divorce attorney and Don should too, was she simply parroting Henry's words?

Certainly since Henry's divorced he knows the routine and I can understand him giving Betty the benefit of his experience. Last episode Henry was willing to give Betty the time she needed and he would wait. Now, things are fast-tracked to Reno. I'm sure that it's been hard for Betty to continue to live in the same house with Don who continues to deny Betty's feelings. But, seeing Betty sitting in the lawyer's office on the sofa with Henry, reminded me of Betty sitting on the sofa with Glen last season. Then, when Don confronts Betty about Henry, they seem to be having their first real fight.

Anyway, I wonder if Betty/Henry are the 'lasting love' mentioned in the Roy Orbison song at the end.

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I think season 4 will include a serious health issue for Don-perhaps lung cancer. Note the cough at the beginning of the last episode. Also the brief scene when Sterling's dog food heiress old flame states that her first husband died of lung cancer, there is a brief cut to Don lighting up another. Thoughts while I write an order for Don to get a screening cat scan.

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