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Week 10: Don's New Mom

Posted Tuesday, Oct. 20, 2009, at 12:58 PM ET

Don Draper (Jon Hamm) and Suzanne Farrell (Abigail Spencer) in "Mad Men" on (c)American Movie Classics Company LLC. All rights reserved.But doesn't it make sense that Suzanne would be a departure from the women Don has gravitated to in the past? Don himself is changing. Whereas in the first two seasons, with the conspicuous exception of the California interlude, Don ignored his past (and in the case of his brother, actively rejected it), this season Don has seemed downright preoccupied with his dark history. There were those flashbacks we carped about back in August, and there was Don's surprisingly frank reminiscence of his hardscrabble roots when he met Connie. And, of course, there's the drawer, into which Don dips with surprising frequency in order to commune with his previous self.

Beyond those overt nods at his own back story, Don has also found in Connie a sort of surrogate father—a dynamic the hotel titan has both encouraged and resisted. But isn't there a sense as well in which Suzanne is a kind of mother figure? Or, at the very least, in which she symbolizes the kind of nurturing, warm, nonjudgmental qualities conspicuously lacking in Don's childhood? Perhaps those attributes we find most cloying in Suzanne as a character ("She's pure. … She holds strong beliefs about the innocence of children. She's both nurturing and modern," as Julia put it) may be precisely what make her appealing to Don. I mean, the woman bakes date nut bread!

"I wish I could have known you at 8," Suzanne tells Don.

"I would've liked you," Don replies sleepily. The Oedipal subtext is pretty clear—and in case you missed it, Don follows with the wonderful line, "Long curly hair. No one has that anymore."

Since her first appearance in the Maypole ceremony, we've been discussing Suzanne as an avatar of things to come—a free spirit, a wood sprite, a hippie. But I think a big part of her appeal for Don is the opposite: She's a concession to his lost childhood, a throwback, a mother figure. "What do you want from me—love?" Connie asked Don, denying Don a gold star for the Hilton campaign. That seems to be precisely what Don's seeking, and while he may not get it from Connie, Ms. Farrell offers it in spades.

I'm glad you mentioned Pryce, John. He's really grown on me through the course of the season. There's something endearing about the resignation with which he says to his wife, "Well, go on, let's have it all, shall we?" The poor guy's getting it on all sides. I love that when he enters Bert's office he has to suggest, politely, that Cooper turn off the TV. ("Do you mind? This is rather serious.") Talk about culture shock: Here Pryce is running a going concern on Madison Avenue, and the name partner waddles around in his stocking feet and spends office hours eating sweets and watching daytime TV. And the joke, of course, is that Pryce loves it and doesn't want to leave. "I've been here 10 months and no one's ever asked me where I went to school," he tells his wife—unsurprising, perhaps, at a firm where the superstar creative director went not to Princeton but to night school.

Unlike you, I loved this episode (almost) in its entirety, Julia, and it seems worth noting that it was co-written by Weiner and Kater Gordon, who, as a recent Jezebel post observed, was sort of the Peggy Olson of the Mad Men staff. She started as an assistant to Weiner, then became a writers' assistant, then a full-time writer, before ultimately sharing an Emmy with Weiner last month for the Season 2 finale, "Meditations in an Emergency." The bizarre and disappointing postscript is that just a few weeks after the Emmy win, Gordon was let go.

Go figure,
Patrick

Week 10: Don's New Mom

Posted Tuesday, Oct. 20, 2009, at 12:58 PM ET
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Patrick Radden Keefe is the author of The Snakehead: An Epic Tale of the Chinatown Underworld and the American Dream, which has just been published. John Swansburg is Slate's culture editor. You can e-mail him at or follow him on Twitter. Julia Turner is Slate's deputy editor. You can e-mail her at or follow her on Twitter at http://twitter.com/juliaturner.
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Series creator Matthew Weiner has stated he leaves nothing for future seasons and puts everything out there each season, like its the last, and this episode could almost double as a series finale. I think when Mad Men eventually ends its run, there will be discussion whether this episode was the proper series finale and should have called it quits right here, or will Weiner have new and interesting places to take us in season 4?

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"And the way that they saw themselves is gone." Julia, I think this pretty clearly refers to Peggy having her child and giving it away. Until Peggy told Pete about the baby, Don was only person on the show outside of her family and priest that knew her secret. Don was the one that visited Peggy in the hospital after she gave birth and had been out of work for a while.

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Who's in charge, Betty or Henry? Something that surprised me was the amount of involvement Henry had in Betty's divorce advice. Does it ring true for the period that Henry went to the lawyer with Betty and apparently also knew the lawyer and may have selected the lawyer for Betty? And, when Betty told Don that she would be consulting with a divorce attorney and Don should too, was she simply parroting Henry's words?

Certainly since Henry's divorced he knows the routine and I can understand him giving Betty the benefit of his experience. Last episode Henry was willing to give Betty the time she needed and he would wait. Now, things are fast-tracked to Reno. I'm sure that it's been hard for Betty to continue to live in the same house with Don who continues to deny Betty's feelings. But, seeing Betty sitting in the lawyer's office on the sofa with Henry, reminded me of Betty sitting on the sofa with Glen last season. Then, when Don confronts Betty about Henry, they seem to be having their first real fight.

Anyway, I wonder if Betty/Henry are the 'lasting love' mentioned in the Roy Orbison song at the end.

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I think season 4 will include a serious health issue for Don-perhaps lung cancer. Note the cough at the beginning of the last episode. Also the brief scene when Sterling's dog food heiress old flame states that her first husband died of lung cancer, there is a brief cut to Don lighting up another. Thoughts while I write an order for Don to get a screening cat scan.

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