
I'll confess, I cheered out loud this week when Betty discovered Don's box of secrets. It was an amazing, surprising, show-shaking development. And without it, I would have dismissed this episode as unforgivably pokey. Sterling Coop prepares for a party! Wrong number at the Draper residence! Elementary school teacher misplaces gold star! It sounds like you two liked the whole episode; I thought it was uneven, redeemed only by the Kinsey meltdown and the sight of Betty making like Nancy Drew.
Patrick, you're right that the big question now is How many of Don's secrets does Betty comprehend? As a Betty sympathizer—someone who finds her character compelling, if not likable—I'd like to think she's put all the pieces together. (One commenter suggests her anthropology degree might have helped her assess the evidence.) But the consensus in the Fray—and I think I agree—is that Betty seemed more interested in and shocked by the divorce papers than anything else in the shoebox. It did seem that she flipped past the photo of Don labeled "Dick" pretty quickly, while she lingered on the documents suggesting that she might not be the first Mrs. Draper. Given Betty's heightened sense of propriety—after all, this is a woman who opted not to have an affair because sex on a desk seemed too crude—one can only imagine that a secret ex-wife, and the revelation that Don was still married when he was courting her, won't sit well with her. And was it just me, or did the camera hold for an extra beat on that California address? Perhaps Betty decided not to confront Don because she wants to go sleuthing on the West Coast instead.
I also loved the sight of Betty reading The Group, which was a best-seller in 1963. Mary McCarthy's novel follows a group of Vassar graduates who pursue interesting careers in their 20s only to find themselves, to varying degrees, hamstrung by domesticity in later life. The book is an intriguing addition to Betty's reading list because of its complex and generally accurate take on American gender history; the book acknowledges that women actually had more opportunities and autonomy during the '30s than in the decades that followed. Given Betty's nostalgic longing for the cosseted state of Victorian womanhood—see: the fainting couch, her fondness for epistolary romance—I wonder what she makes of the independent operators in The Group. Could they have offered her some inspiration to keep her own counsel this week?
The week's other highlight, of course, was the dynamic between Peggy and Kinsey as they struggled to devise a Western Union campaign. I loved it as much as you guys did. Only two points to add. First, it was heartbreaking to hear Peggy say of Don, "He hates me." I don't think Don does hate Peggy; this season he's taken to snapping at Peggy the way Betty snaps at Sally, and it's clear his outbursts have left her feeling uncertain of his esteem. As we know, that's a recipe for disastrous choices on Peggy's part.
Second, did you see the visual aid Kinsey selected for his masturbatory moment? It was the Marilyn/Jackie Maidenform campaign he devised in Season 2. When he brought it out, I thought at first that he was looking to past successes for inspiration. Turns out he just wanted to jerk off to his own work. Blecch. But as metaphors for the behavior of frustrated, self-important creative types go, it's a pretty good one.
But despite these high points, the episode was bogged down by the gigantic, clanking anchor that is Miss Suzanne Farrell. I've been thinking a lot today about what makes her so annoying. The actress who plays her is good. She and Don have decent chemistry. The dialogue is terrible, of course. (I couldn't believe the writers forced her to dwell this week on that schoolboy question about the color blue—that's a cliché beyond cliché, the oldest stoner conundrum in the book.) But I don't think the dialogue alone is the problem. I think it's that Miss Farrell's character—or, more precisely, Don's interest in her—is so ill-conceived.
Why does he want her? She's pure. She's naive. She's a wood sprite. She dances barefoot. She holds strong beliefs about the innocence of children. She's both nurturing and modern (unlike his wife). This all sounds good on paper, but it doesn't feel right on-screen. The Don who wants this ingénue doesn't mesh with the Don we know. He has typically gone for women more sophisticated than Betty, not less; women who can match his worldliness, not challenge it. The Don who's infatuated with Suzanne is not one we've met, and I don't think the show's done enough to explain why he's changed his tune.
Sound right? Or do you guys have alternate theories?
And I'm also dying to hear what you make of the show's obligatory Rome reference of the week, from Suzanne's brother: "Caesar had epilepsy and he ran Rome."
See you in your dressiest Stetsons,
Julia
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Series creator Matthew Weiner has stated he leaves nothing for future seasons and puts everything out there each season, like its the last, and this episode could almost double as a series finale. I think when Mad Men eventually ends its run, there will be discussion whether this episode was the proper series finale and should have called it quits right here, or will Weiner have new and interesting places to take us in season 4?
-- guyroy
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"And the way that they saw themselves is gone." Julia, I think this pretty clearly refers to Peggy having her child and giving it away. Until Peggy told Pete about the baby, Don was only person on the show outside of her family and priest that knew her secret. Don was the one that visited Peggy in the hospital after she gave birth and had been out of work for a while.
-- BumblebeeMan
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Who's in charge, Betty or Henry? Something that surprised me was the amount of involvement Henry had in Betty's divorce advice. Does it ring true for the period that Henry went to the lawyer with Betty and apparently also knew the lawyer and may have selected the lawyer for Betty? And, when Betty told Don that she would be consulting with a divorce attorney and Don should too, was she simply parroting Henry's words?
Certainly since Henry's divorced he knows the routine and I can understand him giving Betty the benefit of his experience. Last episode Henry was willing to give Betty the time she needed and he would wait. Now, things are fast-tracked to Reno. I'm sure that it's been hard for Betty to continue to live in the same house with Don who continues to deny Betty's feelings. But, seeing Betty sitting in the lawyer's office on the sofa with Henry, reminded me of Betty sitting on the sofa with Glen last season. Then, when Don confronts Betty about Henry, they seem to be having their first real fight.
Anyway, I wonder if Betty/Henry are the 'lasting love' mentioned in the Roy Orbison song at the end.
-- lkd711
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I think season 4 will include a serious health issue for Don-perhaps lung cancer. Note the cough at the beginning of the last episode. Also the brief scene when Sterling's dog food heiress old flame states that her first husband died of lung cancer, there is a brief cut to Don lighting up another. Thoughts while I write an order for Don to get a screening cat scan.
-- ldbmd
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