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Week 8: Coercive Sex, a Sterling Cooper Tradition

Posted Tuesday, Oct. 6, 2009, at 10:18 AM ET

Mad Men.She was totally asking for it—Francine, I mean. At the end of Sunday night's episode, Betty tells Don that she hates her friends, and given that she's just been chatting with her meddlesome neighbor, it's pretty clear who she's talking about. Francine was at her busybody worst last night, trying desperately to catch a glimpse of Betty and Henry as she drove off from the town meeting, imposing Ernie on Carla, suggesting that the town's water tower reversal would be an excuse for Betty to cozy up to the governor's office again. But I hope that Betty doesn't start giving Francine the cold shoulder at the A&P. The more I watch Mad Men, the more I pine for the action to be set at the offices of Sterling Cooper, not in the colonials of Ossining. Visits from Francine, however, are an exception—she's always causing trouble, in a good way. She's Mad Men's Gladys Kravitz, the nosy neighbor from that other great television series about advertising, Bewitched.

As for the au pair, I've been taking it on the chin from Fraysters for not describing the incident between her and Pete as rape in my initial post. For the record, I thought the scene was ambiguous, for the reasons Patrick enumerated. Was Pete coercive? Absolutely. But I've grown accustomed to witnessing coercive sex in this series. As Patrick noted, a drunken Pete talked his way into Peggy's bedroom in the pilot. The men of Sterling Cooper have also routinely raided the casting couch. The Cartwright double-sided aluminum twins may have been more game than the Lawrences' au pair, but Roger was clearly preying on their desire to get work—as was Pete when he bedded a would-be Maidenform model in Season 2. None of this makes Pete's actions last night any less disgusting, just less shocking to me than it seems to have been for some viewers.

I fully admit that my moral outrage may have been slow to trigger because I didn't much care about this subplot or about this baby sitter. But I like to think this is less a failure of empathy on my part than a failure of the episode to engage me. We've barely met this woman before Pete's in her bedroom coercing her, and I doubt we're any more likely to see her again than we are Dennis Hobart, another character who felt more like a means to an end than a three-dimensional person. I didn't want to see the poor fräulein date raped, raped raped, or even forced to let Pete buy her an innocent stein of Beck's. But when I heard Pete tell Trudy that Paul Kinsey had invented a contraption for lobbing water balloons across the office, I did wish that we'd have been treated to that story line instead of this one.

And people say New Yorkers aren't friendly,
John

Week 8: Coercive Sex, a Sterling Cooper Tradition

Posted Tuesday, Oct. 6, 2009, at 10:18 AM ET
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Patrick Radden Keefe is the author of The Snakehead: An Epic Tale of the Chinatown Underworld and the American Dream, which has just been published. John Swansburg is Slate's culture editor. You can e-mail him at and follow him at www.twitter.com/swansburg. Julia Turner is Slate's deputy editor. You can e-mail her at or follow her on Twitter at http://twitter.com/juliaturner.
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Series creator Matthew Weiner has stated he leaves nothing for future seasons and puts everything out there each season, like its the last, and this episode could almost double as a series finale. I think when Mad Men eventually ends its run, there will be discussion whether this episode was the proper series finale and should have called it quits right here, or will Weiner have new and interesting places to take us in season 4?

-- guyroy
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"And the way that they saw themselves is gone." Julia, I think this pretty clearly refers to Peggy having her child and giving it away. Until Peggy told Pete about the baby, Don was only person on the show outside of her family and priest that knew her secret. Don was the one that visited Peggy in the hospital after she gave birth and had been out of work for a while.

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Who's in charge, Betty or Henry? Something that surprised me was the amount of involvement Henry had in Betty's divorce advice. Does it ring true for the period that Henry went to the lawyer with Betty and apparently also knew the lawyer and may have selected the lawyer for Betty? And, when Betty told Don that she would be consulting with a divorce attorney and Don should too, was she simply parroting Henry's words?

Certainly since Henry's divorced he knows the routine and I can understand him giving Betty the benefit of his experience. Last episode Henry was willing to give Betty the time she needed and he would wait. Now, things are fast-tracked to Reno. I'm sure that it's been hard for Betty to continue to live in the same house with Don who continues to deny Betty's feelings. But, seeing Betty sitting in the lawyer's office on the sofa with Henry, reminded me of Betty sitting on the sofa with Glen last season. Then, when Don confronts Betty about Henry, they seem to be having their first real fight.

Anyway, I wonder if Betty/Henry are the 'lasting love' mentioned in the Roy Orbison song at the end.

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I think season 4 will include a serious health issue for Don-perhaps lung cancer. Note the cough at the beginning of the last episode. Also the brief scene when Sterling's dog food heiress old flame states that her first husband died of lung cancer, there is a brief cut to Don lighting up another. Thoughts while I write an order for Don to get a screening cat scan.

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