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Friday Night Lights, Season 3

Week 12: You Win Some, You Lose Some

Posted Tuesday, April 7, 2009, at 12:11 PM ET

"Panthers" -- NBC Photo: Bill Records"You're screwed either way," as you wrote, Meghan, or you're blessed either way. That's both the message of Tyra's essay and of this episode. There's another moment I loved that we haven't mentioned. On the night before the game, both Tami and Eric are too nervous to sleep. They go out on the balcony and look out into the night. Eric is seeking comfort from Tami and she says, "Well, you're gonna win."

And then she pauses, and the wind blows. For a moment you're left thinking that her words will have the magic power they often do, and they will win the game. And then she finishes.

"Or you're gonna lose."

This could be seen as extreme pessimism, almost cruelty on her part to feed him realism when what he needs is inspiration. And it's a break from her usual mode of support. But it's perfectly suited to this episode, when everything hangs in the balance, not just the football game but the futures of these kids we've grown to love. Tyra's essay runs along these same lines. Before Street's accident, she was of the "you're screwed either way" mindset. After it, she realized that being screwed was not her particular fate; anyone could be screwed or blessed, so you might as well choose to be blessed. And as you point out, Meghan, this is what makes this show great—the characters evolve and in most cases improve, but not so predictably that they don't always seem vulnerable to fate or failure. (An aside here: Slate's Seth Stevenson points out one life-changing event Tyra failed to discuss with Landry: her near-rape and then the accidental murder of a man. But we all conspire in wanting to forget that unfortunate string of events.)

Many of our readers who've already seen it have written to warn me that I will be stunned by the final episode, and particularly by who is staying and who is leaving Dillon. I've heard nothing but glowing things about it, so I will excuse myself now and go watch.

Week 12: You Win Some, You Lose Some

Posted Tuesday, April 7, 2009, at 12:11 PM ET
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Emily Bazelon is a Slate senior editor. Meghan O'Rourke is Slate's culture critic and the author of Halflife, a collection of poetry. Hanna Rosin is the author of God's Harvard: A Christian College on a Mission To Save the Nation and a contributing editor at the Atlantic. She can be reached at . Emily, Hanna, and Meghan are helping Slate launch a new women's Web site this spring, Double X. David Plotz is Slate's editor.
Stills from Friday Night Lights © 2008 NBC Universal Inc. All rights reserved.
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Entry 10 and Entry 15 by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 18 by Mitchell Haaseth/NBC Photo.
Entries 22 and 23: Stills of Jesse Plemons as Landry Clarke and Stephanie Hunt as Devin Corrigan by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 31: Still of Minka Kelly as Lyla Garrity by Mitchell Haaseth.
Entry 32: Still of Taylor Kitsch as Tim Riggins and Scott Porter as Jason Street by Virginia Sherwood/NBC Photo.
Entry 33: Still of Adrianne Palicki as Tyra Collette and Zach Roerig as Cash by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 36: Derek Phillips as Billy Riggins by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 37: Kim Dickens as Shelby Saracen by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 38: Adrianne Palicki as Tyra Collette and Zach Roerig as Cash by Bill Records/NBC Photo. Entry 43: Still of Brad Leland as Buddy Garrity and Kyle Chandler as Eric Taylor by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 44: Still of D.W. Moffett as Joe McCoy Sr. by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 45: Still of Jesse Plemons and Tyra Collette by
Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 46: Still of Taylor Kitsch as Tim Riggins and Adrianne Palicki as Tyra Collette by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 48: Still by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 49: Still of Connie Britton as Tami Taylor by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 50: Still of Kyle Chandler as Eric Taylor and Connie Britton as Tami Taylor by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 52: Still from
Friday Night Lights by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 55: Still from
Friday Night Lights by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
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