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Week 3: Helicopter Parenting

Posted Monday, Feb. 2, 2009, at 4:05 PM ET

Hanna, Emily,

I thought J.D. was trying to make a joke that didn't come off. It's my guess, too, that we're not supposed to be able to read his reaction, because he's not sure himself. He's angry, but he also sees the ridiculousness of his parents' shrine to him. One thing we haven't discussed: With the McCoys comes the FNL's first depiction of that modern affliction known as helicopter parenting. I suppose, to be accurate, that Joe is actually a more specific type: a form of stage parent, the obsessed parent-coach. Here is a parent who is helping drive his son into developing his talents but who also just might drive him crazy by pushing too hard.

This introduces a new theme for FNL, right? Until now, over-involvement wasn't a problem for any of the parents on the show. In fact, the parenting problems all had to do with moms and dads who were notably absent (in the case of Matt and Tim, say). Tami and Eric are attentive parents. So is Smash's mom. But you couldn't call them helicopter parents, that breed of nervously hovering perfectionists who busily cram their children's schedules with activities and lessons. In this case, that finicky sense of entitlement projected by Joe is associated, we're meant to feel, with his wealth, to get back to what you brought up, Hanna, about money and love. Katie, too. I'm curious to know how far the sports parenting issues will go. Is J.D. going to crack up? Or is Joe creating a sports equivalent of Mozart with all his proud pushing? I suspect the first, mainly because Joe is portrayed as such a jerk. (This dilemma might be more interesting if the writers had let Joe be a more complex figure—but maybe the whole point is these types are caricatures, almost.)

Meghan

Week 3: Helicopter Parenting

Posted Monday, Feb. 2, 2009, at 4:05 PM ET
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Emily Bazelon is a Slate senior editor. Meghan O'Rourke is Slate's culture critic and the author of Halflife, a collection of poetry. Hanna Rosin is the author of God's Harvard: A Christian College on a Mission To Save the Nation and a contributing editor at the Atlantic. She can be reached at . Emily, Hanna, and Meghan are helping Slate launch a new women's Web site this spring, Double X. David Plotz is Slate's editor.
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Entry 31: Still of Minka Kelly as Lyla Garrity by Mitchell Haaseth.
Entry 32: Still of Taylor Kitsch as Tim Riggins and Scott Porter as Jason Street by Virginia Sherwood/NBC Photo.
Entry 33: Still of Adrianne Palicki as Tyra Collette and Zach Roerig as Cash by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 36: Derek Phillips as Billy Riggins by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 37: Kim Dickens as Shelby Saracen by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 38: Adrianne Palicki as Tyra Collette and Zach Roerig as Cash by Bill Records/NBC Photo. Entry 43: Still of Brad Leland as Buddy Garrity and Kyle Chandler as Eric Taylor by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 44: Still of D.W. Moffett as Joe McCoy Sr. by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
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Entry 46: Still of Taylor Kitsch as Tim Riggins and Adrianne Palicki as Tyra Collette by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 48: Still by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 49: Still of Connie Britton as Tami Taylor by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 50: Still of Kyle Chandler as Eric Taylor and Connie Britton as Tami Taylor by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
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