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Week 3: Deciphering the Bronzed Diaper

Posted Monday, Feb. 2, 2009, at 7:18 AM ET

"Every Rose Has Its Thorn" Episode 305 -- Pictured: Connie Britton as Tami Taylor.Yes, Meghan, Tami is being played by Katie McCoy. In part because she wants to be. I found their pairing off all too recognizable: They have that spark two women get when they see something in each other that they want and don't have. Their friendship, or maybe it will prove an infatuation, is a trying-on of identity. So, yes, Katie is using Tami to entrench her son's status on the team and to show off her wealth. And Tami refuses to notice, because it suits her purposes not to. A party at Katie's house means no clogged toilets at Tami's (and, oh yes, that my rang in my ears, too). I particularly loved the moment when Tami enters Katie's glittering, ostentatious house and her new friend and hostess puts an arm around her waist and they sail off together into the living room in their evening dresses, husbands trailing after them. It captured exactly how women are made girlish by mutual crushes.

Tami's falling for Katie would be harmless enough if it weren't clashing with her husband's interests. It's that willingness to clash that's new, isn't it? And captured so well by that great exchange you quoted. The Taylors haven't just become a two-career couple. They're a couple with jobs that are at loggerheads.

The Tami-Katie spark was connected, for me, with the Lyla-Mindy debacle, in part because both of these dyads cut across class, a theme we've been discussing. Tami and Katie are flirtingly using each other; Lyla and Mindy miss each other completely, in a way that causes real pain. How could Lyla have laughed at those poor, sweet Finding Nemo wedding vows? I mean, really. Then again, Lyla is completely out of her element, sitting there with two sisters and a mother who present a fiercely united front, at least to other people. Maybe she was nervous and blew it. Or maybe she wanted to hurt them because she envies their sisterhood.

And now a few questions, for you and for our readers. What happened at the end of that football game? Did Matt really fumble, or did he get a bad call—after all, it looked to me like he was in the end zone with control of the ball before he was hit. And was the pounding Matt took during the game just the show's latest realist depiction of the perils of football, or were we supposed to suspect that J.D.'s father had somehow induced the other team to take out QB 1? (I'm probably being paranoid, but the camera work had a sinister element to it.) Last thing: When J.D. catches Matt and Julie making fun of his trophies and comes back with that too-perfect zinger about how his parents also bronzed his diapers, is he just trying to make them feel small and stupid? Or is he also distancing himself from his parents and their pushy football worship? I couldn't quite decide how to read him in that moment.

Week 3: Deciphering the Bronzed Diaper

Posted Monday, Feb. 2, 2009, at 7:18 AM ET
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Emily Bazelon is a Slate senior editor. Meghan O'Rourke is Slate's culture critic and the author of Halflife, a collection of poetry. Hanna Rosin is the author of God's Harvard: A Christian College on a Mission To Save the Nation and a contributing editor at the Atlantic. She can be reached at . Emily, Hanna, and Meghan are helping Slate launch a new women's Web site this spring, Double X. David Plotz is Slate's editor.
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Entry 18 by Mitchell Haaseth/NBC Photo.
Entries 22 and 23: Stills of Jesse Plemons as Landry Clarke and Stephanie Hunt as Devin Corrigan by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 31: Still of Minka Kelly as Lyla Garrity by Mitchell Haaseth.
Entry 32: Still of Taylor Kitsch as Tim Riggins and Scott Porter as Jason Street by Virginia Sherwood/NBC Photo.
Entry 33: Still of Adrianne Palicki as Tyra Collette and Zach Roerig as Cash by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 36: Derek Phillips as Billy Riggins by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 37: Kim Dickens as Shelby Saracen by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 38: Adrianne Palicki as Tyra Collette and Zach Roerig as Cash by Bill Records/NBC Photo. Entry 43: Still of Brad Leland as Buddy Garrity and Kyle Chandler as Eric Taylor by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 44: Still of D.W. Moffett as Joe McCoy Sr. by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 45: Still of Jesse Plemons and Tyra Collette by
Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 46: Still of Taylor Kitsch as Tim Riggins and Adrianne Palicki as Tyra Collette by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 48: Still by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 49: Still of Connie Britton as Tami Taylor by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
Entry 50: Still of Kyle Chandler as Eric Taylor and Connie Britton as Tami Taylor by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
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Friday Night Lights by Bill Records/NBC Photo.
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