Hanna, Emily,
One thing I’ve been thinking about is Friday Night Lights’ distinctive brand of male sentimentality. This show seems singularly designed to make men cry. Its lodestars are comradeship on and off the field (“God, football, and Texas forever,” I recall Riggins toasting with Jason Street in the very first episode); a modern blend of paradoxically stoic emotionalism (epitomized by Coach Taylor); and a recurrent, choked-up love of the tough women who make these men’s attachment to football possible. This may be the West, but in Dillon, Texas, John Ford’s American masculinity has been diluted with a cup of New Man sensitivity.
Take this episode’s key scene between Matt Saracen and his grandmother: Debating whether to take his ailing grandmother to an assisted-living home, Matt is shaken when she suddenly tells him how great he was in his last game. She spirals into loving reminiscence:
“You’ve always loved football, Matty. I remember when you were two years old you were trying to throw a football, and it was bigger than you were. And you were such a sweet baby, such a sweet, sweet baby. But here you are all grown up and taking care of everything. I don’t know what I’d do without you. I don’t know. Matthew, I love you.””I know. I love you too, Grandma.” “You’re such a good boy.””If I am, it’s only because you raised me.”
The scene is very well-played—we haven’t talked much about the show’s acting yet, it suddenly occurs to me—replete with pauses and tears and a final hug between the two. But the emotion derives from a move in the script that occurs again and again in this series: A man is having a difficult time when his mother, his grandmother, or his wife describes how much it means to her that he is taking care of her, or accomplishing brilliant things on the field, or just plain persevering. Smash has had moments like this with his mom. Coach has moments like this with Tami. And here Matt is reminded of his duty—to take care of his grandma, even though he’s 17—when she speaks about his masculine prowess, first as a tough little boy throwing a ball “bigger than you were” and now as a tough teenager trying to navigate another task much bigger than he is.
Friday Night Lights has gotten more sentimental over the years, I think, not less, and it has also embraced its women characters more than ever. (I’m not sure I think they really play second fiddle to the men, Hanna—though they once did.) The show is about relationships now; its investigation of male honor has made a quarter-turn to focus largely on male honor as it pertains to women. (Even wayward Tim Riggins has been domesticated.)
In this regard, the show is far more incantatory than realistic (to borrow Susan Sontag’s labels for the two main types of art). That is, it trades on magic and ritual more than on gritty realism, even while it often pretends to be grittily realistic. And so while it does talk about class, unlike many network TV shows, and while it does portray a place that’s geographically specific, as I mentioned in my last entry, it’s also offering up a highly stylized story that is intended, I think, to serve as an emotional catharsis for men, while winning women over by showing that men really do have feelings, and it’s going to translate them into a grammar we can begin to understand.
I like this episode, but it strikes me that we’ve come a long way from season one, when there was a bit more edge on things. (Remember how it almost seemed that Riggins was racist?)
And we’re definitely a long way from Buzz Bissinger’s book Friday Night Lights, on which the series and the movie are based. That book—so far, at least; I’m only 150 pages in—has plenty of sentimentality about the power of athletic glory to alleviate the mundanity of life off the field. But it also stresses the meanness and nastiness that fuels the talent of so many of the actual Panthers Bissinger met. Not to mention the racism that pervaded the town. On this show, we rarely see that meanness; Riggins used to embody it, but now he’s a pussycat, trying on blazers to keep Lyla happy. On the field, it’s the team’s pure-hearted sportsmanship that makes it so lovable, not any player’s manly violence. After all, their locker-room mantra is “Clear eyes, full hearts can’t lose.” And in Matt Saracen they had a scrappy quarterback underdog who really wanted to be an artist. Even J.D. is small and—can’t you see it in those wide eyes?—supersensitive.
I love FNL, but sometimes I wonder: Is the show becoming simply too sentimental about its characters?
Meghan