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from: Richard Rhodes

Goodbye to Perry Como

Posted Monday, May 14, 2001, at 11:22 AM ET

Ginger,

If that tom turkey gobbles outside our bedroom window at 5:30 a.m. one more morning, we're having him for dinner. He's way late. All the hen babes have already hooked up with other guys. Audubon used to watch hundreds of toms lekking the hens in the bottomlands along the Ohio River; he says in the Ornithological Biography that the toms would keep on courting long after the hens were bored. But this guy's beyond belief: the end of history and the last tom.



Perry Como died. No more Bibbidi Bobbidi Boo. Owned his own barbershop at 14. Wrote his own epitaph: "I was a barber and then I was a singer. That's all there is to say." Mention his songs, "Because," "Don't Let the Stars Get in Your Eyes," and the words and tunes scroll right out of memory. Heads full of songs. People say we only use 10 percent of our brains. That's because the other 90 percent is stuffed full of old songs. Do you mind if I sing my all-time favorite, "Comin' in on a Wing and a Prayer"?

Bob turned 60, speaking of songs. Won't be long now.

I have to write a lecture for the Supercomputer Conference Los Alamos is sponsoring in Washington in mid-June. Technological paradigm shifts in history. It's the unintended side effects that really change history. Cars were supposed to save us from being swamped with horse manure. If we'd stuck with horses. ... Because of a drought in the hay-growing regions and a refusal of suburbanites to allow pasturage in their backyards, California might be having a hay crisis right now ... and Cheney and the Kid would be stumping for cutting down the redwoods and planting timothy.

Too turbulent up there to go flying today, my love?

Rhodeman

from: Richard Rhodes

Goodbye to Perry Como

Posted Monday, May 14, 2001, at 11:22 AM ET
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Ginger Rhodes is a doctoral candidate in clinical psychology who studies violence. Richard Rhodes is the author of 19 books, including The Making of the Atomic Bomb and Why They Kill.
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[Notes from the Fray Editor: This week's "Breakfast Table"-ers did a terrific job of summarizing the Fray entries, taking up their points and answering them in the column--Fray industry workers could have taken the week off. As new star Mangar put it: "Richard Rhodes was very gracious in his willingness to directly address comments from the Fray. It's a brave thing to do, and I wish more authors had the guts. Thanks to Richard, and I'll try to reply with that respect in mind." Though Mr Rhodes' claim that Fraymanians "blow off while hiding behind the anonymity of your nicknames" did not go down well. Several posters gently and politely defended their right to Fraynames, for example here.

An interesting discussion on Mr Rhodes theories, and of his comments on The Fray (Fraymers didn't like the bit about "can't read very well" either), started here, with the splendid title "An attempted ex post facto clarity?"--if there's one thing Fraysters are going to catch you out on, it is that. Some of the Fray's finest pitched in. A brave and honest (and not anonymous) post about brutalization in schools came from Roy Jaruk, here.

Violence was the overwhelming topic of choice, but there are a few posts on verity, fawns ("fauns are those things that have afternoons, unless your woods are much more interesting than mine"), lekking, and other matters. Use the Fray Editor's Picks button, or just look for the checkmarks and stars. And Claude Scales took up the question of what we should call Fraypersons here.]


What sociologists and psychologists try to do is find a reason for a behavior or pattern of behavior. They don't use these reasons as "excuses" to pardon criminals, just as a way to understand the root of criminal action. These reasons have been badly skewed in courts as they have become excuses for heinous crimes--true to history, people have used science irresponsibly for ridiculous and damaging profit. (By the way I am a biologist and no, this has nothing to do with cloning). So take it to heart and realize behavioral scientists are simply trying to find explanation for such actions to end this pattern in the future.

--Mel

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You don't have to delve very deeply into the human psyche to find out why some people are violent. It's not some strange perversion or disease that needs an explanation from genetics or childhood trauma or sociological circumstance. Put quite simply, it works. It's an efficient and effective way of acquiring immediate power over people, and of gaining their enduring fear, if not their respect. Someone who stands to gain more than he loses from using violence is going to be quite tempted to use it. So in order to combat violence, we need have an ongoing legal, social, and moral campaign against it, to make sure most people who commit violent acts lose more (in terms of money, respect, and social approval) than they gain.

--Jane Grey

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My personal belief (and so it is only opinion based on observation) is that we are not teaching children (males in particular) how to channel aggressiveness positively or when certain levels of violence are a reasonable response (and which are not). We are simply condemning aggressiveness and violence but the children in learning that things are not that simple are making up their own rules.

--Michael Murray

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[People] talk about "violence" as if it were a simple and agreed upon quality, like the flavor vanilla, and could be discussed as a single unified thing. In point of fact, though, soldiers jumping out of trenches into machine-gun fire, cold-blooded poisoners, domestic batterers, schoolyard bullies, and generals who order airstrikes, although they are all engaging in "violence" of one sort or another, have nothing else in common, and it's disingenuous (at best) to discuss them as if their actions were interchangeable.

The "problem of violence" is an illusion. It is not tuberculosis. It is not vanilla. And it does not have a "cure".

--Thrasymachus

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