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William F. Buckley Jr. and Michael Kinsley

from: William Buckley Jr.

The Ideological Insistence on Symmetry

Posted Wednesday, March 28, 2001, at 11:18 AM ET

Michael Kinsley reminisced on the late William F. Buckley during an online chat on Feb. 28, 2008. Read the transcript.

Dear Michael,

You were diverted yesterday by the need to preside over a "Diversity Training" seminar. I am diverted today (Oklahoma City) to speak and receive a "Distinguished Citizen" award. This will permit me to warn of the ambiguities of language, citing the priest who wrote to the bishop pleading his appearance at the reopening of the church after the roof was repaired. The bishop grumpily agrees, but only if the pastor fails to enlist the services of "someone less distinguished." At deadline time, the pastor telephones and apologizes for summoning the bishop, pleading that he tried and tried but could find no other person less distinguished than the bishop.



You bump into yourself in your farewell sally on first names. It is logical to refer to such as Mrs. Graham (is there such as Mrs. Graham?) using her surname, even though one calls her Kay to her face. What that means is that you are subconsciously affirming a difference in station (yes, that's the right word), which you don't want to, or feel the need to, be disciplined by in common discourse. Endicott Peabody was called, presumably only by mother, wife, and nanny, Cotty. And no, there is nothing at all wrong in calling the cleaning lady Joan, even if she calls you Mr. Kinsley. What's wrong is the ideological insistence on symmetry when usage cries out against it.

Now the affirmative action basis has me leaning on the side of Professor Epstein. His position is an extension of Murphy's Law, which survived the anti-discrimination wave of legislation in New York 20 years ago. It held out for two-apartment dwellings, permitting the rental of the second apartment without reference to discrimination suits. Do you remember the Girard case? It was at the turn of the century, the philanthropist Girard leaving his money to found an orphanage in Philadelphia, which would be open only to white Protestant boys. That sat for generations but then clogged up the courts, which set aside the covenant on the grounds that the state could not be an agent of an evil act. I thought that wrong and think it wrong to get in the way of voluntary acts by citizens expressing their own preferences and priorities unless what hangs in the balance is necessary to life. That obviously requires feeding and shelter facilities to look after the traveler; which is, I guess, why under common law, the caravanserai had to accommodate all comers provided they could pay for the service.

Forgive the abrupt ending; I need to dash off to Oklahoma to be honored. I couldn't find any place closer.

X,
B

from: William Buckley Jr.

The Ideological Insistence on Symmetry

Posted Wednesday, March 28, 2001, at 11:18 AM ET
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William F. Buckley Jr. is editor at large of National Review. His forthcoming novel is called Elvis in the Morning. Michael Kinsley is editor of Slate.
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[Thursday notes from the Fray Editor: Bruce F. Cole appears to be addressing here some amalgamated version of the two distinguished Breakfast Tablers, but we never let that sort of consideration stand in the way of a cheap shot in The Fray. A couple of readers pointed out that the Girard bequest to which Mr. Buckley refers (Wednesday) was made in the 1840s; the Supreme Court struck down its whites-only provision in 1968. Tom R (yes, again) writes about diversity with the memorable sentence "Working for the Air Force you get all sorts of opportunities to find out how to discriminate against other people, sexually prey on their weaknesses, steal the government's money, and solicit bribes from government contractors." There appears to be some attempt to link this description with Slate, but best left hidden we think.]


Boycotts are for sissies. The Yale students planning a boycott of Clinton's appearance are only doing it to draw attention to themselves. They deserve no such attention. Boycotting a speech doesn't do anything. It doesn't even say anything. It just sort of suggests that people who do not want to do or even say anything want very badly to look as if they are.

Do these Yalies disapprove of Sen. Clinton, or what she represents? Fine; let them show in their post-Yale lives that they stand for something better. That would be a statement worth making. Right now it doesn't sound as if they have anything to say.

--Joseph Britt

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[Wednesday notes from the Fray Editor: The Fray is divided into two camps: those who think modes of address a dull topic, and those who cannot pile their perceptions in fast enough. There is also a meta-level of discussion as to what makes a good "Breakfast Table" and a good Fray--see for example Charmy, here. Alexander Chancellor raises an excellent point about possible national differences in formality.

Those who could tear themselves away from names wanted to discuss affirmative action here, and here ("I'm confused, they're both wrong"). Tom R, in addition to the contribution below, revealed that he once received a memorably specific grant for being an "exceptional married engineering student who planned to attend grad school". We're sure you deserved it Tom. More good stories here and here.

Publius wants the Fray Editor to ask Mr Buckley a question, but Zeitguy knows why she can't: "We talk to Kinsley, Kinsley talks to God, God sends email to Buckley..."]


Being an old friend of Michael or Mike Kinsley, yet still undecided whether to call him Mike or Michael, I am particularly interested in this correspondence. I tend towards calling him Michael, not because I object to "Mike" in any way at all but because I am British and somehow assume that "Michael" is what would be expected of me by Americans, even though Britain long ago became a nation of "Mikes" rather than "Michaels". When I was editor of the Spectator in the 1970s, I published a couple of rather dull articles by a young lawyer under the name Anthony Blair. He is now Prime Minister and would be appalled if anyone called him anything other than Tony.

--Alexander Chancellor

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If, as Mr. Kinsley suggests, Mr. Buckley must defend his preference for civilized formality on grounds other than tradition, it seems to me Kinsley should argue for informality on grounds other than its current vogue among Internet users. They've also made all-lowercase the standard for email, but we're in no rush to adopt that as general usage.

--Scott Dickensheets

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Harvard may be privately controlled but it's larded with government funding in both its research programs and in government subsidies for basic education programs. I'd only accept Mr. Buckley's concept about affirmative action being acceptable for the private sector if in fact Harvard (or any other private college) could set up some sort of 'Chinese Wall' to segregate the publicly funded segments from the privately funded segments. The latter then could come under the Buckley programmatic blessing.

--Tom R

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[Monday notes from the Fray Editor: It would be quite an achievement to be considered the biggest troublemaker on the Fray, but we may have a contender: step forward Neill Hamilton. We are naturally not going to publish the offending post, in which he tries to turn Breakfast Tablers against each other, but we will tell you that he has tried this in the past (here and here) and made a notably bad taste post which required a special reader warning. Amber, below, is doing her best, too.]


Two thoughts for Mr. Buckley: The nicknamed figures of stature you mention are Southerners. For reasons I've never quite plumbed, given names are normally shortened there (I accepted the same sort of abbreviation during several years in the South), regardless of the formality of the situation. Yankees adopt nicknames less consistently.

As a New Yorker somewhere in age between you and Michael Kinsley, I can't escape thinking of you as Mr. Buckley and him as Michael. Age evidently has something to do with it. In print, his bylines are always Michael, but he's a leader in an industry largely run by and for an even younger generation, one far less formal than either of you.

The more interesting question might be if it matters at all in this era. A great many Southerners command respect whatever they're called.

--Ellie C

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What do your parents call you when you are in trouble? By your nickname or by your full name? Seems to me William, and poor Christopher, were awful children who did nothing but get into mischief and trouble. They are just used to being called by their full names.

--Amber

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