Emily Yoffe Emily Yoffe

Emily Yoffe is a regular Slate contributor. She writes the Dear Prudence column. 

Dear Prudence
Oct. 1 2014 6:49 PMDear Prudie Early Release: Can’t Stomach ItI was shamed for getting gastric bypass surgery. Can I keep it a secret from my boyfriend?
Dear Prudence
Oct. 1 2014 1:52 PMMixed Feelings About a MixtapeMy boyfriend gave me a mixtape, but all the songs are weird or depressing.
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Sept. 29 2014 3:10 PMThe Lonely TeetotalerPrudie counsels a letter writer who doesn’t drink alcohol—and is constantly harassed by others for it.
Dear Prudence
Sept. 25 2014 6:00 AMPorn PaysMy family has no idea all our money comes from adult websites.
Dear Prudence
Sept. 23 2014 6:00 AMNaked and AfraidPrudie offers advice on whether a young boy should sleep in the same room with his nude grandfather.
Live Chats
Sept. 22 2014 12:00 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor September 22, 2014.
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Sept. 17 2014 3:24 PMOvergrown Mean GirlsThe wealthy local moms are ostracizing me—and my kids.
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Sept. 15 2014 3:44 PMHome WorkPrudie advises a man who wants to be a stay-at-home dad, but his wife refuses.
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Sept. 11 2014 6:00 AMOne Ugly MotherI used to be beautiful. Then I had a child. Now I’m a troll.
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Sept. 9 2014 5:28 PMImprudently YoursLeave a question for Emily Yoffe’s September 11 conversation club. Just don’t come looking for advice.
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Sept. 4 2014 6:00 AMThe Snore of LoveMy wife hates sex so much she’d rather be asleep when we do it.
Dear Prudence
Sept. 2 2014 3:25 PMBack That Seat UpPrudie advises a letter writer who doesn’t let passengers recline their seats on planes.
Dear Prudence
Aug. 28 2014 7:00 AMDon’t Bring the PainI have fantasies of hurting my 3-year-old nephew. Why?
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Aug. 26 2014 6:00 AMPrivate BiPrudie advises a woman married to a man on whether she should tell people she’s bisexual.
Live Chats
Aug. 25 2014 12:00 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor August 25, 2014.
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Oct. 1 2014 5:44 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor Oct. 6, 2014.
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Sept. 30 2014 6:00 AMDrive-By BountyPrudie advises a woman whose boyfriend demands she flash truckers on the highway.
Live Chats
Sept. 29 2014 12:00 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor Sept. 29, 2014.
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Sept. 24 2014 1:26 PMEtiquette for Loaning Your PhoneSomeone borrowed my phone to chat instead of make a call. Is that weird?
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Sept. 22 2014 3:33 PMKilling With KindnessPrudie counsels a woman whose in-laws want to throw a big, exhausting get-well-from-cancer party.
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Sept. 18 2014 6:00 AMAll Shook UpMy 11-year-old has been exploring herself with my “back massager.” Should I stop her?
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Sept. 16 2014 6:00 AMCan of WormsPrudie offers advice to a letter writer who wants to blackmail a famous ex with tapes of his fetish.
Live Chats
Sept. 15 2014 12:00 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor Sept. 15, 2014.
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Sept. 10 2014 2:01 PMBabysitting ConundrumHow do I find out if my neighbors are really willing to watch my kid?
Dear Prudence
Sept. 8 2014 9:36 AMBedtime StoriesPrudie advises a letter writer whose 13-year-old daughter reads pornographic fan fiction.
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Sept. 3 2014 1:25 PMObsessed With Fiancé’s Sexual PastHow do I get over it?
Live Chats
Sept. 2 2014 12:00 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor Sept. 2, 2014.
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Aug. 27 2014 2:00 PMDad Who’s Deep in the WeedMy wife wants me to stop smoking pot now that we’ve had a baby.
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Aug. 25 2014 3:39 PMEither the Dog Goes …Prudie offers advice on whether a pet with bad behavioral issues should be put down.
Dear Prudence
Aug. 21 2014 6:05 AMDial M for MatricideA friend just confessed she may have killed her mother. Do I tell someone?

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