An Ex-Gay Ministry Asks For Forgiveness, Doesn't Get It

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June 21 2013 8:52 AM

Opening Act: Exodus

Jennifer Rock and Nico Valenzuela pose for a picture before receiving a civil union license on May 1, 2013 in Denver, CO.

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The collapse of Exodus International, the granddaddy of ex-gay ministries, came as such a surprise that it seemed like a Yes Men prank. It had some of the signatures of a prank, leading with a tearful apology from its famous pastor. But it was real. Gabriel Arana, who was once subjected to ex-gay therapy, asks whether they can be forgiven.

While Exodus's closure ensures that fewer people will undergo ex-gay therapy in the future, it doesn't bring back those who committed suicide after failing to change their sexual orientation. It doesn't give me back the time I spent in therapy, or the college years when I thought my attractions were immoral but was helpless to change them. Chambers, who is married but has admitted he continues to have homosexual feelings, may be a victim of his own cause, but his apology doesn't undo the damage he and his organization have wrought. That isn't a moral judgment—it's just a fact. As conservatives like to say, ideas matter.

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David Weigel is a Slate political reporter. 



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