Belen Chapur: Mark Sanford’s fiancée surprised by his Facebook breakup post.

Mark Sanford’s Fiancée Surprised by his Facebook Post Announcing Breakup

Mark Sanford’s Fiancée Surprised by his Facebook Post Announcing Breakup

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Sept. 14 2014 1:29 AM

Mark Sanford’s Fiancée Surprised by his Facebook Post Announcing Breakup

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Rep. Mark Sanford and María Belén Chapur wait for a ceremonial swearing-in at the U.S. Capitol on May 15, 2013, after he won a special election on May 7.

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Washington insiders were shocked Friday when Rep. Mark Sanford announced the end of his relationship with his Argentine fiancée in a rambling, 2,346-word Facebook post. The fiancée, María Belén Chapur, was also surprised. “I learned it from the press today,” she told the New York Times on Saturday. The former South Carolina governor, who famously said in 2009 he had gone “hiking on the Appalachian Trail” when he was in fact in Argentina with Chapur, blamed the end of the relationship on his ex-wife, Jenny Sanford.

“No relationship can stand forever this tension of being forced to pick between the one you love and your own son or daughter,” Sanford wrote. “And for this reason Belen and I have decided to call off the engagement.”

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Chapur isn’t buying it, telling the Times that Sanford should not “leave blame on Jenny.” She now feels he prioritized his political career over their relationship. “I think that I was not useful to him anymore—he made the engagement thing four months before the elections,” Chapur said. “So this is not about his son, this is about his career and his ambitions.”

Over the last few months, Chapur and Sanford apparently argued incessantly about a wedding date. The two had gotten engaged two years ago, and she was tired of waiting. But Sanford asked her to put off the marriage for two more years. And the relationship that began in the figurative Appalachian Trail ended in Paris. The two apparently had a great time there but she delivered an ultimatum. And he didn’t budge. “His response was, ‘24 months. If not I’ll say goodbye and I will look for you in 24 months.’ ” She asked him to make the breakup public, but she apparently had no idea he was planning on the Facebook post.

Daniel Politi has been contributing to Slate since 2004 and wrote the Today’s Papers column from 2006 to 2009. Follow him on Twitter.