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  • "A Non-Addictive Form of Vicodin, Non-Fattening Cheese Fries...or Writing."

    From time to time, I post short interviews with interesting people about their insights on happiness. During my study of happiness, Ive noticed that I often learn more from one persons highly idiosyncratic experiences than I do from sources that detail universal principles or cite up-to-date studies. Im much more likely to be convinced to try a ...
  • A Little-Known Occupational Hazard Affecting Writers.

    Theres a very common occupational hazard that affects writers, but Ive never heard anyone talk about it: the desire to write outside your main field. I know a journalist who took a sabbatical to write a novel, which turned into a short story. I know a science writer who is writing a play. I know a novelist who is writing a memoir. This change ...
  • "The Truest Mark of Being Born with Great Qualities Is..." -- What?

    ''The truest mark of being born with great qualities is to be born without envy.'' --François de La Rochefoucauld * I spent a lot of time cruising around the great site Parenthacks this morning. Good stuff! * Check out the Happiness Project Toolbox -- it lets you track your own happiness project, online. And you can see what other people are ...
  • Try Fun, Quick Exercises to Boost Your Creativity

    Im working on my Happiness Project, and you could have one, too! Everyones project will look different, but its the rare person who cant benefit. Join in -- no need to catch up, just jump in right now. Each Fridays post will help you think about your own happiness project. One of my favorite resolutions, because its so much fun to keep, is ...
  • In Which I Get Teary Reading My Own Book

    This week, I finished the audiobook for The Happiness Project. As Id expected, it made me very happy to learn to do something new and to get a glimpse into the unfamiliar world of sound recording. It was also thrilling to learn that none other than Jim Dale had sat in the very same seat that I was using, when he was recording Harry Potter and ...
  • Fifteen Tips to Avoid Nagging

    Every Wednesday is Tip Day.This Wednesday: Back by popular demand...fifteen tips to avoid nagging. I've posted this list before, but I'm posting it again, because the issue of nagging is something that people raise with me frequently in discussions of happiness. It turns out that being a nag is just as unpleasant as being nagged -- so figuring ...
  • Learn New Skills, Ask Questions, Practice Yoga—and Only Travel With a Carry-On

    From time to time, I post short interviews with interesting people about their insights on happiness. During my study of happiness, Ive noticed that I often learn more from one persons highly idiosyncratic experiences than I do from sources that detail universal principles or cite up-to-date studies. Im much more likely to be convinced to try a ...
  • Some Counterintuitive Facts About Loneliness

    Sometimes people ask, If you had to pick just one thing, what would be the one secret to a happy life? The answer is clear: strong bonds with other people. If I had to pick one thing, thats it. The wisdom of the ages and the current scientific studies agree on this point. On that subject, I just finished a fascinating book by John Cacioppo and ...
  • "We Are Never So Much Disposed to Quarrel as When ..."

    We are never so much disposed to quarrel with others as when we are dissatisfied with ourselves.William Hazlitt Yet another reason why we have a duty to be happy. I know I'm less quarrelsome when I'm happy. * I'm not a foodie, so I don't often explore the wild, delightful world of foodie blogs. But I know Melanie Rehak, so I regularly check ...
  • Take Your Time. Especially When You’re in a Hurry.

    Im working on my Happiness Project, and you could have one, too! Everyones project will look different, but its the rare person who cant benefit. Join inno need to catch up, just jump in right now. Each Fridays post will help you think about your own happiness project. A few weeks ago, I posted eight excellent tips for living that my ...
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