Why Were the Women of The Real L Word Such Downers?
Why Were the Women of The Real L Word Such Downers?
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Aug. 18 2010 2:15 PM

Why Were the Women of The Real L Word Such Downers?

I just had my first brush with reality television. Before you wonder if I lost the TV remote for 10 years, I should say that I do watch a few unscripted shows: I have an unhealthy obsession with Project Runway, and I've seen several seasons of contests like The Next Food Network Star and Design Star, but they're more like televised auditions.

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June Thomas is a Slate culture critic and editor of Outward, Slate’s LGBTQ section. 

The Real L Word was my first prolonged exposure to the kind of show that's premised on a bunch of people doing whatever it is they usually do while another bunch of people follows them around with cameras.


It was awful.

There's no big insight here: Everyone who saw the show seemed to hate it and the women who were on it. But why was it so vile?

The problem with The Real L Word is that it was all about problems. Since Mikey was self-employed, at least we got to see her work life (elsewhere, for the most part, we saw side lines like modeling gigs and "comedy" acts), but it was a downer because she was so stressed out. Jill and Nikki spent all their waking hours planning their wedding

Doom, gloom, and boo-hoo. Every script needs conflict, but reality requires happiness.

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