http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2009/07/10/it-s-not-so-fun-to-outdo-your-parent.aspxEmily, you wrote yesterday about the tricky feeling of watching your son outperform you , and finding it discomfiting. But kids can be just as uncomfortable in the surpassing role as the parents are about being bested. My all-girls basketball team usedenCommunityServer 2.1 SP2 (Build: 61129.2)