http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/07/25/swf-seeks-bright-lights-big-city.aspxThis week's renewed discussions about women " opting out " of the work force — or being forced out — make me think of Joan Didion's 1967 essay " Goodbye to All That ." It's about her life in 1950s New York as a twentysomething, when the city emblematizedenCommunityServer 2.1 SP2 (Build: 61129.2)