http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/05/23/luckily-i-hadn-t-even-been-in-chicago.aspxTim and Ellen , the few married women I know who've come right out and said they were having affairs all wound up divorcing the hubby and marrying the "other man.'' Only, those are just the ones who talked about it. One of my most gorgeous married friendsenCommunityServer 2.1 SP2 (Build: 61129.2)