http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/05/20/so-what-are-the-secret-lives-of-married-men.aspxHas anyone sat down yet with New York 's cover story, a long essay entitled " The Affairs of Men: The Trouble with Sex and Marriage ," pegged to the Eliot Spitzer scandal? Inside, however, is not an outré confession but a fiftysomething baby boomer'senCommunityServer 2.1 SP2 (Build: 61129.2)