http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2008/03/12/dana-mcgreevy-explains.aspxSilda didn't listen to us, did she? But the gay-American-luv-guv's ex, Dana McGreevey, explained on MSNBC that wives don't stand up there for their husbands; they stand up there for their kids. My first thought was oh, great modeling on how to be a doormat.enCommunityServer 2.1 SP2 (Build: 61129.2)