Photos of a Young Russian Family That Sparked Outrage

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March 12 2014 11:57 AM

A Precarious Family That Sparked Outrage

Pasha and his guest are too agressive agaist society in a punk-culture-style. Lila and Pasha live together for five years. They have a daughter, Anfisa, 2 years old. They are punks and drug-users, their home is often noisy and full of occasional guests. Lilya has sexually transmitted desease and doesn't know her HIV diagnoses. Unthough all that, they love each other and their little daughter and try to take care of her properly.
Pasha and a friend partying, with Anfisa in the foreground.

Irina Popova

Irina Popova’s project began with an assignment to photograph “feelings.” Shortly thereafter, Popova ran into Lilya, a young punk woman, outside of an underground club close to St. Petersburg, Russia. After striking up a conversation with Lilya, who appeared to be inebriated and pushing her young daughter, Anfisa, in a stroller, Popova took some photographs of the mother and daughter. The two hit it off, and Popova was invited back to the apartment Lilya and Anfisa shared with Pasha, Lilya’s longtime boyfriend and Anfisa’s father. This started what would ultimately become Popova’s book, Another Family.

Over the next couple of weeks, Popova took photographs of the young family in their tiny apartment. Friends moved freely in and out of the space, music was played, people partied with alcohol and drugs—all with young Anfisa present. The photographs Popova took during that period were shown in a gallery in St. Petersburg (attended by Lilya and Pasha) and then shared on the Internet. Outrage quickly built. Viewers were upset by the way they perceived the couple to be treating their child.

Many were also angry and saw Popova as an opportunist for  photographing the situation without intervening. “I couldn’t imagine the reactions at all,” Popova recalled about the backlash against her. “Maybe it’s weird, but my intention was to talk about the possibilities of love on the margins of society, and I hoped to bring more understanding, to build a bridge between people and to raise awareness that bringing up a child is not an easy task.”

Anfisa is being in danger walking on a window-edge.
Anfisa plays dangerously close to a window's edge.

Irina Popova

Anfisa is playing with the cigarettees of her sleeping mother. Lila and Pasha live together for five years. They have a daughter, Anfisa, 2 years old. They are punks and drug-users, their home is often noisy and full of occasional guests. Lilya has sexually transmitted desease and doesn't know her HIV diagnoses. Unthough all that, they love each other and their little daughter and try to take care of her properly.
Anfisa plays with the cigarettes of her sleeping mother.

Irina Popova

Lila is returning home from a night party with Anfisa sleeping in a baby pram. Lila and Pasha live together for five years. They have a daughter, Anfisa, 2 years old. They are punks and drug-users, their home is often noisy and full of occasional guests. Lilya has sexually transmitted desease and doesn't know her HIV diagnoses. Unthough all that, they love each other and their little daughter and try to take care of her properly.
Lilya returns home from a night of partying, while Anfisa sleeps in a baby pram.

Irina Popova

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Popova said all of the negative attention was difficult to take, because often the truth isn’t completely evident when looking at photographs. She said that viewers couldn’t imagine that the couple they saw in the photographs could raise a child properly, so they lashed out against both the parents and her for publishing the images. “The truth is that life is complex and there are many situations too complicated to be judged,” she said. “I thought it was important to make people think more about the level of truth which they usually don’t want to think about.”

Another Family includes the images Popova took and many documents that relate to the work: the initial assignment she received, correspondence with mentors about the direction of the work, a journal she kept, and email she received from people who were outraged as well as those who supported her. “The book doesn't intend to give all the answers, but it gives enough material to think about it,” Popova said. “The materials are organized into a story, which is totally real, but it took years to sort it and put it into the book with as much love and care as possible.”

At the time the photographs were taken, Popova was a 21-year-old journalism student, unprepared to deal with all of the attention. She hopes by publishing Another Family she can put the project behind her and her subjects will have some peace. Popova said the family has moved on with their lives and that Anfisa is fine, but Popova doesn’t wish to share more information about them. “Basically, by publishing the book, I would like to end the story,” she said. “The main part of the story was shot more than five years ago, and since then life goes every minute further, while photography fixates one moment forever.”

Lila and Pasha are looking at their daughter. Lila and Pasha live together for five years. They have a daughter, Anfisa, 2 years old. They are punks and drug-users, their home is often noisy and full of occasional guests. Lilya has sexually transmitted desease and doesn't know her HIV diagnoses. Unthough all that, they love each other and their little daughter and try to take care of her properly.
Lilya and Pasha look at their daughter.

Irina Popova

Parents and their child spend time together. Lila and Pasha live together for five years. They have a daughter, Anfisa, 2 years old. They are punks and drug-users, their home is often noisy and full of occasional guests. Lilya has sexually transmitted desease and doesn't know her HIV diagnoses. Unthough all that, they love each other and their little daughter and try to take care of her properly.
Parents and child spend time together.

Irina Popova

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Lilya and Pasha had an argument about the money on the street. They went in different directions, but at the last moment, they both looked back.

Irina Popova

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Lilya at an exhibition of the project's images. The whole family came to the exhibition opening at Mayakovsky Library in St. Petersburg six months after the first photo shoot. They said they found the images nice and funny and didn't expect the harsh reaction that followed.

Irina Popova

Anfisa is now 3 years old. Her mother left the family half a year ago and has never showed up since that. Every morning the father brings Anfisa to a kindergarten nearby, in a gloomy Petersburg communal flat, without any playground in it. Anfisa stays there all day long playing with other children under control of nannies. They say that the child doesn't look too happy, she is a bit behind normal speech and behavior development of a three-years old child. Sometimes the father doesn't bring her to the kindergaten at all, and sometimes she has bruises or scratches on her face and body. The nannies are seriously worried.
Anfisa in kindergarten, a year and a half after the initial exhibit.

Irina Popova

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