Dear Prudence video: My husband won’t stop smoking, and I don’t want to have sex with him

Help! My Husband Won’t Quit Smoking, and I Don’t Want to Have Sex With Him.

Help! My Husband Won’t Quit Smoking, and I Don’t Want to Have Sex With Him.

Advice on manners and morals.
Oct. 17 2015 1:00 PM

Unsexy Smoker 

I quit smoking, but my husband won’t. Now I don’t want to be intimate. 

husband quit smoking.

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In this week's video, Prudie advises a woman whose husband helped her quit smoking, but shows no interest in quitting himself, to the detriment of their sex life.

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