Mom and Dad Are Fighting: Gay and lesbian parenting in the age of marriage equality and how to take parenting advice.

Getting Married and Having Kids in the Age of Marriage Equality

Getting Married and Having Kids in the Age of Marriage Equality

Slate's parenting podcast.
July 2 2015 11:02 AM

Mom and Dad Are Fighting: The Dad and Dad Are Fighting Edition

 Listen to Slate’s parenting podcast on gay parenting, marriage equality, and the difficulties of taking parenting advice. 


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In this week’s edition of Slate’s parenting podcast Mom and Dad Are Fighting, Slate vice chairman Dan Check and editor Dan Kois and talk to Andrew Solomon about gay and lesbian parenting in the wake of the Supreme Court’s historic decision. Then, parenting advice: Why is it so easy to give, but so hard to take? Plus, triumphs and fails, and Dan and Dan answer a listener’s question about the ideal age difference between children.


This week on Slate Plus, we talk with editor in chief of Slate Julia Turner about her latest parenting fail … or is it a triumph?

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Dan Kois recommends Ask Me written by Bernard Waber and illustrated by Suzy Lee for reading with new readers.

Dan Check recommends Brad Meltzer’s I Am series, which includes titles such as I Am Amelia Earhart.

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And finally: Come to Outward Live at City Winery in New York City on July 13 with special guests Ted Allen and Evan Wolfson!

Podcast produced by Ann Heppermann. Our intern is Jessie Chasan-Taber.

Dan Check is president and vice chairman of The Slate Group. Follow him on Twitter.

Dan Kois edits and writes for Slate’s culture department. He is writing a book called How to Be a Family and co-writing, with Isaac Butler, an oral history of Angels in America.