Dear Prudence podcast: The “Line in the Sand” edition.

Help! My Family Isn’t Homophobic, We Just Think My Sister’s Girlfriend Is Racist.

Help! My Family Isn’t Homophobic, We Just Think My Sister’s Girlfriend Is Racist.

Advice on manners and morals.
Feb. 8 2017 7:00 AM

Dear Prudence: The “Line in the Sand” Edition

My sister is accusing our family of homophobia, but her girlfriend is a bigot.



First off, a cold hard truth from Prudence: Having a chore wheel never works. Then, Vice Canada columnist Sarah Hagi joins Prudie to talk about how to:

  • Deal with horrible house guests
  • Politely decline praying with your family when you’re an atheist
  • Be a good friend to someone who hates being single
  • Tell your sister: “It’s not because you’re gay—it’s your racist girlfriend”

Plus, Prudence on whether to intervene if you think a co-worker is cutting himself.

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