Dear Prudence podcast Episode 30: the “Rocky II” edition.

Help! My Boyfriend’s Asexual and I’m Not. Are We Doomed?

Help! My Boyfriend’s Asexual and I’m Not. Are We Doomed?

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Dec. 28 2016 7:00 AM

Dear Prudence: The “Rocky II” Edition

How can I persuade my wife to let me quit my job so I can play poker?

confused sad women.

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Rocky returns! An update from an aspiring poker player who wants to quit his day job (The “Anger Management” Edition, Nov. 30). Then, Mallory and comedian Avery Edison tackle your questions:

  • A friend made a cruel comment at a party, I made a scene, and no one will let it go.
  • I love my boyfriend, but he’s asexual and I’m not. Is our relationship doomed?
  • My boyfriend struggles with body image and I don’t know how to handle it.
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