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Dear Prudence,

My wife and I, both in our mid-20s, have been married now for a little over a year. There are no kids. We have a lifestyle difference that is of major concern to my wife. She is a vegetarian, and I am not. Before we married, we agreed we would not give each other a hard time based on dietary preferences. I am happy with the vegetarian wife I married and would not try to change her. A couple months after we were married, however, my wife attended an animal rights activist conference and was "enlightened." Since the conference, she feels she cannot achieve her goals in life being married to someone who eats animal products. She has stated that she needs to be married to someone who has the same views about animals and who is willing to organize rallies and speak to the public about her cause. I love my wife dearly and told her I support her in what she is doing; however, I don't feel comfortable joining her. She tells me that my respect and support for her aren't good enough. She is getting more radical as time progresses. This issue has created such friction in our marriage that she has asked for a divorce on a few occasions. She has apologized to me that her views have become more radical and says she still loves me but states that the animals are more important than our marriage. Is this marriage salvageable?   

Thank you so much,

—Disturbed

Dear Dis,

Prudie is afraid the handwriting is on the veal. The good news, though, is that you're really young, the marriage is but a year old, and there are no children. Any girl who agrees to disagree about what you both eat, then decides that "animals are more important than our marriage" and insists you help organize rallies deserves her freedom ... and Prudie hopes she and Bambi will be very happy. (If you are getting the idea there is not a lot of sympathy in this corner for her going overboard for this particular cause, you are correct.)

—Prudie, carnivorously

Prudie,

My mom passed away a year ago, and that prompted my ex and me to talk. He sent his best wishes to me and my family. We have been divorced for over 24 years. We shared a son who passed away after only a few months. As we were talking, we started to talk about why we split up, and that brought up old feelings. He is so easy to talk to now. I would like to be available to him, but I am married ... though one wouldn't say it's a happy marriage. I've been married for 20 years and would find it hard to walk away. I am not being mistreated, exactly, just ignored and taken for granted. So I am writing to you for words of wisdom. Should I just see where things go with the ex or break it off now? 

—Unhappy and Confused

Dear Un,

You don't say if your wasband is currently married or single, which would change the equation somewhat. Should he be on the loose, it would be easier to "see where things go" before making any decisions. If he is married, however, which would then involve four people, Prudie would suggest you not even throw the dice. And do bear in mind that it is easy to assign miraculous "improvement" to someone you've not been dealing with in nearly a quarter of a century.

—Prudie, numerically

Dear Prudence,

I recently moved back to Australia, where I went to high school, and decided to share a house with an old school friend. After we had moved in, I discovered we were incompatible, to say the least. She is clingy, rude to my friends, and extremely high-maintenance. It's gotten to the point where none of my friends wants to visit my house or attend any social gatherings at which she'll be present. None of this ever showed in her personality before, and I was quite startled to see this side of her. Unfortunately, she appears to have become very attached to me, has decided we'll be best friends forever, and is constantly making plans for the future—involving me. Needless to say, I find this rather unsettling and am not looking forward to announcing my decision to move out on my own when our lease expires in two months. How do I break this to her gently? I have a feeling that telling her that I'm leaving because I simply can't stand living with her anymore might not be the most tactful thing to do. Help!!!