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Help! I’m Going to a Gender-Reveal Party. Do I Really Need to Buy a Gift?

Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.

May 16 2016 2:53 PMHelp! I Love My Partner, but I’ve Fallen for Another Guy.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 2 2016 2:44 PMYou Don’t Have to Buy Wedding Gifts, Prudie DecreesDear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 18 2016 3:06 PMHelp! I Found Out My Sister Is About to Lose Her House. Should I Tell Her I Know?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 4 2016 3:17 PMHelp! I Feel Like a ’50s Housewife. How Can I Get My Husband to Do His Share of the Chores?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 21 2016 3:50 PMHelp! My Mother-in-Law Keeps Starting Drunken Arguments With My Son.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 7 2016 3:52 PMHelp! Am I Being Underpaid?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Feb. 22 2016 3:15 PMHelp! I Don’t Want to Take In My Husband’s Grandchildren.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Feb. 8 2016 2:46 PMMy Wife Won’t Stop Flirting on FacebookDear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 25 2016 3:39 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 11 2016 3:16 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 28 2015 2:35 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 14 2015 2:51 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 30 2015 3:45 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 16 2015 3:01 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 13 2015 4:19 PMI’ll Never Forget How Prudie Helped MeLetters from fans and advisees about how Dear Prudence’s Emily Yoffe changed their lives. 
May 9 2016 3:21 PMHelp! My ADHD Daughter Needs a Reality Check. Should I Kick Her Out of the House?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 25 2016 5:14 PMHelp! Should I Tell My Friend That She’s Not a Virgin?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 11 2016 4:36 PMHelp! I Told My Niece to Hide Her Tattoos and Piercings at Work. Am I Body-Shaming Her?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 28 2016 3:32 PMHelp! I’m Going to the Same College as an Awful High School Classmate. How Do I Shake Her?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 15 2016 3:52 PMHelp! How Can I Bring This Up Without Sounding Like I Want a Marriage Proposal?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Feb. 29 2016 3:53 PMHelp! Should I Leave My Husband for a Younger Man?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Feb. 16 2016 3:05 PMHelp! I Think My Neighbor Is Listening to Me Masturbate.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Feb. 2 2016 6:15 AMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 19 2016 2:48 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 4 2016 4:01 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 21 2015 3:13 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 7 2015 3:00 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members. 
Nov. 23 2015 3:37 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 16 2015 8:26 AMDear Mallory“It was like being asked if I wanted to be Santa Claus, or happiness.” The new Prudence tells all.
Nov. 2 2015 3:09 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.

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