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July 12 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Therapist and the Critical Friend
June 28 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Brother-in-Law Who Downloaded Child Pornography
June 21 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Bad Sister
June 6 2018 12:00 PMHelp! It Breaks My Heart When My Sister Acts Like I Ruined Her Childhood.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 31 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Wedding Drama
May 17 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Angry Wedding Guest
May 10 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: Virgin Bikini Wax
May 2 2018 12:30 PMHelp! Should I Tell the People Who Sexually Assaulted Me They’re at Risk for Chlamydia?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 19 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Cuckold
March 28 2018 12:30 PMHelp! My Biological Mom Wants Me to Disown My Adoptive Mom.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 15 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Friend’s Abusive Boyfriend
Feb. 22 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Worried Waitress
Feb. 14 2018 12:30 PMHelp! Why Is My Friend Blaming Us for Her Bad Relationship? We Told Her to Dump Him.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 25 2018 10:26 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Lake House
Jan. 1 2018 10:30 AMHelp! Whose Parents Are Supposed to Pay for the Reception at a Gay Wedding?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
July 5 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Extrovert and the Introvert
June 27 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Should I Move Back Home to Be Closer to My Aging Mom? Even if I Don’t Like It There?
June 20 2018 12:01 PMHelp! I’m Worried My Neighbor’s Kids Are Taking Pictures of Me Gardening in the Nude.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
June 1 2018 12:30 PMHelp! A Distressed Teen I Met Online Might Move Across the Country to Be Closer to Me.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 23 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Girlfriend Loves Rescuing Animals, but It’s Ruining Her Relationships—Including Ours.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 16 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Am I Queer Enough to Identify Myself as Queer on My Grad School Application?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 9 2018 11:45 AMHelp! I Took a DNA Test and the Results Turned My World Upside Down.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 26 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Mother-Daughter Pregnancies
April 4 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Do I Have to Spend Holidays With My Partner’s Ex-Wife?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 22 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Defensive BossDear Prudence Uncensored: The Defensive Boss
Feb. 28 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Mom Keeps Donating Money to Charity Instead of Paying Her Mortgage.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Feb. 15 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: Who Moves the Moviegoer?
Feb. 8 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Meter Reader–Phobe
Jan. 5 2018 6:06 PMHelp! Everyone Keeps Telling Me to Go to Therapy—Please Make It Stop!Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 20 2017 12:30 PMHelp! My Boyfriend Doesn’t Think Trump Is Racist. I Should Dump Him, Right?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.

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