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Feb. 15 2017 12:15 PMHelp! I Hate When My Boyfriend Uses Baby Talk. How Do I Tell Him?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 30 2017 3:31 PMHelp! My Boyfriend’s Roommate Is a “Progressive” Blowhard.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 17 2017 3:15 PMHelp! My Boyfriend Recently Dated a Much Younger Woman, and It Creeps Me Out.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 3 2017 3:04 PMHelp! My Sister Gave Away an Heirloom Diamond. Is She Disrespecting Our Grandmother?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 19 2016 3:26 PMHelp! My Grandma Found Out I’m Gay and Banned Me From Christmas.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 5 2016 4:12 PMHelp! I Made a Spectacularly Unsmooth Move on My Co-Worker.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 21 2016 4:35 PMHelp! My Mom Turns Pleasant Holidays Into Emotionally Charged Sympathy Sessions.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 7 2016 4:00 PMHelp! My Adult Stepdaughter Frightens My Kids.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 24 2016 2:58 PMHelp! He Agreed to Move Out, so Why’s His Stuff Still Here?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 11 2016 11:59 AMHelp! My Friend Yelled at My Child for No Reason.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 26 2016 3:15 PMHelp! I Don’t Know if I’m Ready to Be a Mom.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 12 2016 3:54 PMHelp! My Adopted Father Died, and My Brother Resents My Inheritance.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Aug. 29 2016 2:54 PMHelp! My Fiancé’s Family Wants Me to Take His Last Name.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Aug. 15 2016 3:26 PMHelp! My Boyfriend’s Dream Job Is in Another City, and My Dream Job Is Here. What Now?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Aug. 1 2016 2:54 PMHelp! My New Boyfriend Can’t Go Five Minutes Without Saying He Loves Me.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Feb. 6 2017 2:42 PMHelp! My Husband Wants to Abandon Our Aggressive Dog. I Want to Put Him Down.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 23 2017 3:00 PMHelp! My Friend Wants Me to Throw Her a Shower—but the Doctor Says Her Baby Won’t Survive.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 9 2017 2:40 PMHelp! I Am Always Tired Because of a Chronic Illness. Should I Have a Baby?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 27 2016 3:09 PMHelp! My Parents Paid for My Brother’s Wedding, so Why Are They Refusing to Pay for Mine?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 12 2016 4:01 PMHelp! When We Have Sex, My Husband Climaxes in 10 Seconds.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 28 2016 3:18 PMHelp! I Got Pregnant. Then My Lying Sister Claimed She Was Too.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 14 2016 3:22 PMHelp! I Think My Husband’s Poor Judgment Put Our Kids in Danger. Am I Overreacting?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 31 2016 3:37 PMHelp! My Husband’s New Co-Worker Is His Old Mistress.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 17 2016 4:14 PMHelp! My Friend Treats My Apartment Like a Hotel, and My Boyfriend Is Sick of It.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 3 2016 3:25 PMHelp! I Never Want to See My Daughter Again. How Do I Tell Her?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 19 2016 3:15 PMHelp! We Live Together. We’re in Each Other’s Wills. Is He Really Just My “Boyfriend”?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 6 2016 3:19 PMHelp! My Mother-in-Law Keeps “Forgetting” My Son’s Peanut Allergy.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Aug. 22 2016 3:57 PMHelp! My Boyfriend’s Ex-Wife Taught Her Son to Hate Me. How Can I Be a Good Co-Parent?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Aug. 8 2016 3:16 PMHelp! Our Friends Want Us to Adopt Their Aggressive Dog.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
July 25 2016 2:30 PMHelp! I Don’t Want a Divorce—I Just Want to Stop Having Sex With My Wife.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.

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