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Nov. 8 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: Babies Everywhere
Oct. 25 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Startup Dress Code
Oct. 4 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Stay-at-Home Mom’s Husband
Sept. 27 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Naked Dad
Sept. 19 2018 1:24 PMHelp! I Had to Give My Flaky Friends the Freeze-out—but Now I Really Miss Them.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Aug. 30 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Stoner Boyfriend
Aug. 15 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Grandma Had an Ugly Photo of Our Wedding Framed. Can I Replace It?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Aug. 1 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Mother’s Fiancé Insists on Americanizing My Daughter’s Name.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
July 19 2018 11:19 AMHelp! My Husband Won’t Let Me Leave the Room When We Fight.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
July 5 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Extrovert and the Introvert
June 27 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Should I Move Back Home to Be Closer to My Aging Mom? Even if I Don’t Like It There?
June 20 2018 12:01 PMHelp! I’m Worried My Neighbor’s Kids Are Taking Pictures of Me Gardening in the Nude.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
June 1 2018 12:30 PMHelp! A Distressed Teen I Met Online Might Move Across the Country to Be Closer to Me.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 23 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Girlfriend Loves Rescuing Animals, but It’s Ruining Her Relationships—Including Ours.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 16 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Am I Queer Enough to Identify Myself as Queer on My Grad School Application?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 7 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Cousin Is Taking Advantage of My Mom to Get Free Child Care.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 24 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Ex-Mother-in-Law Won’t Let My Twins Be Independent.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 3 2018 3:43 PMHelp! My Friend Is Dying. Should I Tell Him That I’ve Fallen in Love With Him?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 20 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Envious Heiress
Sept. 12 2018 1:13 PMHelp! My Friend Can’t Keep a Job. Should I Tell Her That Her Personality Is the Problem?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Aug. 16 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Smart One
Aug. 2 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Ex-Lover/New Colleague
July 25 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Boyfriend Kept Me a Secret From His Mom.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
July 12 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Therapist and the Critical Friend
June 28 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Brother-in-Law Who Downloaded Child Pornography
June 21 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Bad Sister
June 6 2018 12:00 PMHelp! It Breaks My Heart When My Sister Acts Like I Ruined Her Childhood.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 31 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Wedding Drama
May 17 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Angry Wedding Guest
May 10 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: Virgin Bikini Wax

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