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To B-Cup or Not to B-Cup
My college-bound daughter is ashamed of her small breasts. Should I offer to pay for a boob job?
Sex EdPrudie counsels a letter writer whose sister slept with her teacher in high school—then married him.
Smooth or Chunky?Prudie advises a woman alarmed that her son had a dog lick peanut butter off his chest.
Going, Going, GonePrudie advises a woman who wants to leave her family for the man she loves—and who just had a stroke.
Bear NecessitiesPrudie advises a letter writer whose boyfriend still has a collection of stuffed animals.
Color BindPrudie counsels a black woman who can’t connect with her white boyfriend on matters of race.
The ComebackPrudie counsels a letter writer who broke up with a fiancé six years ago—and now wants him back.
Remember Me MorePrudie counsels a letter writer whose dying stepmother is comparing her death to that of the letter writer’s mom.
Office BondagePrudie advises a letter writer whose male boss took the women at work to see Fifty Shades of Grey.
Miserly RelativesPrudie counsels a woman expected to pay her way at her brother’s child’s birthday party.
Surprise PackagePrudie advises a woman horrified that her husband’s friend drew a penis on their wedding guestbook.
Male Pattern CrazinessIn the past decade, no one has seen my balding boyfriend without a hat except me.
What Ceiling?Prudie advises a woman puzzled by reactions to the fact she hasn’t faced much sexism at work.