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Dear Prudence: The “Radical Unfriendliness” EditionStrangers keep telling me I’m not brown enough to be Indian. Help!
It’s Not a Blood DiamondPrudie advises a woman who loves her fiancé but feels humiliated by her flashy engagement ring.
Help! I’m Stuck in a Lease With My Ex, and It’s Ruining My Sex Life.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Open It Up” EditionDo I need to tip every time an iPad gives me those pre-programmed options? Help!
No Embryos for YouPrudie advises a mother who wants to help her brother have a baby—but not if it means she’ll also have to help her sister-in-law.
Help! I Hate Telling People My Husband “Passed Away.” Can’t I Just Tell It Like It Is?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Good Neighbors, Bad ReligionPrudie advises a letter writer whose kind neighbors help with the kids but think Halloween is devil-worshipping.
Dear Prudence: The “Capitalism Is the Problem” EditionMy husband loves being a stay-at-home dad, but our friends make fun of him. Help!
Nobody Else Stepped Up to the PlatePrudie counsels a letter writer on how to support a difficult cancer patient when everyone else refuses to get involved.
I Blamed the VictimPrudie counsels a letter writer who regrets badmouthing a friend after she was molested.
Help! My 19-Year-Old Nanny Has Been Exercising in Our Home in Her Underwear.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Bidet and Boujee” EditionNow that we own a bidet, my boyfriend refuses to buy toilet paper for the house. Help!
Past DuePrudie advises a letter writer on whether it’s time to end a relationship with a pregnant married couple.
Help! My Closeted Ex Pretends We Never Even Dated.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Time to Get Away?Prudie advises a letter writer whose husband has very different opinions on how to vacation.
Help! My Friend’s a Belligerent Alcoholic, and She Wants an Invite to My Birthday Party.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Great ExpectationsPrudie advises a woman whose husband thinks it’s fine that she works and does all the parenting.