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Help! We Broke Up Because He Didn’t Want Kids. Now He Has Them—and I Don’t.
Prudie answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Help! My Soon-to-Be Ex-Husband Cares More About His Dogs Than His Kids.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Childless BurdenPrudie advises a letter writer whose husband blames her for being unable to get pregnant.
Help! Everyone Keeps Telling Me to Go to Therapy—Please Make It Stop!Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Net NeuteredPrudie counsels a couple who don’t allow their guests to access Facebook while staying in their vacation home.
Dear Prudence: The “Eternally Engaged” EditionMy fiancé has been putting off our wedding for five years. Help!
In Love With a TrutherPrudie advises a letter writer who’s dating “a really great guy” who happens to think 9/11 was an inside job.
Dear Prudence: The “Selfish Sister” EditionMy older sibling wasn’t a part of my life, but now she’s sick and wants to me tend to her every need. Help!
Indelibly OmPrudie counsels a letter writer who regrets getting a tattoo she now regards as culturally insensitive.
Dear Prudence: The “Ongoing Fling With a Famous Person” EditionCan I maintain a secret relationship with a famous man without feeling left out of his glamorous life? Help!
Responsible RelativesPrudie counsels a letter writer who’s trying to make amends after her son disrupted a family wedding.
Dear Prudence: The “Reverse Kids Get Off My Lawn” EditionMy neighbor loves my cats, but she’s encroaching on my personal space. Help!
Fostering a FuturePrudie counsels a letter writer who worries becoming a foster parent will make it harder for her to find a husband.
Singular AssaultPrudie advises a letter writer who was once sexually assaulted by their current partner.
Help! Whose Parents Are Supposed to Pay for the Reception at a Gay Wedding?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Very Suggestive TextsPrudie counsels a letter writer who is trying to protect her marriage after acting on a crush at a company holiday party.
Dear Prudence: The “Personal ATM” EditionI’ve given my friend thousands of dollars, and she keeps asking for more. Help!
Help! My Boyfriend Doesn’t Think Trump Is Racist. I Should Dump Him, Right?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Help! I’m Graduating College. He’s Graduating High School. Should I Ask Him Out?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Schrödinger’s Stolen Cat” EditionI took in an uncollared, unchipped cat as my own, but then I saw a “missing cat” poster that looked like my pet. Help!