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Dear Prudence: The “Bullying Sister-in-Law” Edition

My brother married a woman who used to torment me growing up. How do I forgive her? Help!

June 21 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Bad Sister
June 19 2018 8:47 AMDear Prudence Live ChatFor June 25, 2018.
June 13 2018 12:01 PMHelp! My Roommate Has a Gambling Problem and Wants Me to Loan Her Money.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
June 7 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Bereaved Mother
June 6 2018 12:00 PMHelp! It Breaks My Heart When My Sister Acts Like I Ruined Her Childhood.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
June 5 2018 4:00 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor June 11, 2018.
June 4 2018 4:33 PMHelp! My Wife Ignores Our Daughter’s Needs Because Our Son Has ADHD.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
May 31 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Wedding Drama
May 30 2018 12:00 PMDear Prudence: The “Do I Buy the Ticket?” EditionI want to visit a close platonic friend I made in college, but my boyfriend is jealous of him. Help!
May 29 2018 3:55 PMHelp! How Should We Tell Our 13-Year-Old That We’re Getting a Divorce?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
May 24 2018 6:00 AMPlus NoneI’m terrified my partner’s transphobic parents will out him at our wedding.
May 23 2018 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Poly Wedding Invite Etiquette” EditionI don’t like the couple that my two good friends are dating—do I need to invite them to my wedding too? Help!
May 21 2018 3:24 PMHelp! My Boyfriend Implied That I Shouldn’t Have Children Because I’ve Struggled With Addiction.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
May 17 2018 6:00 AMCrushedI told my friend I had feelings for her, and she told me she wasn’t interested. Years later, I’m still not over her.
May 16 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “I Wanna Kidnap a Dog” EditionMy family won’t get their dog fixed. Can I take it to the vet myself, without their permission? Help!
June 20 2018 12:01 PMHelp! I’m Worried My Neighbor’s Kids Are Taking Pictures of Me Gardening in the Nude.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
June 14 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Dog-Lover and the Allergic Fiancée
June 13 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Demeaning My Co-Workers” EditionI have an illness that causes me to forget names, and I feel I’m disrespecting everyone at work. Help!
June 7 2018 6:00 AMGot to Weigh InMy boyfriend won’t stop commenting on my size.
June 6 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Crush On My Job Interviewer” EditionIs it inappropriate to ask out someone who could be my future boss? Help!
June 5 2018 8:21 AMHelp! How Do I Know When It’s Time to Quit Grad School?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
June 1 2018 12:30 PMHelp! A Distressed Teen I Met Online Might Move Across the Country to Be Closer to Me.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 31 2018 6:00 AMWedding Day DramaAt my wedding, my brother walked down the aisle with my best friend. Now his wife is furious at me.
May 30 2018 8:32 AMHelp! A Senior Colleague Asked Me, the Intern, to Help Translate His Animated Porn.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
May 24 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Good Ex-Wife
May 23 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Girlfriend Loves Rescuing Animals, but It’s Ruining Her Relationships—Including Ours.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 22 2018 7:32 AMHelp! Is It Gauche to Plan My Own 30th Birthday Party?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
May 17 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Angry Wedding Guest
May 16 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Am I Queer Enough to Identify Myself as Queer on My Grad School Application?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 15 2018 8:40 AMHelp! How Do I Get My Otherwise Great Therapist to Stop Telling Me About His Sex Life?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.

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