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Prudie counsels a father who walked in on his daughter while she was having sex with her costumed boyfriend.
Finders Keepers, Cheaters WeepersI kicked out my terrible ex-boyfriend. Then I found $10,000 in cash that he left behind.
Dear Prudence: The “Drama Tornado” EditionI shared some confidential information with my therapist, and then she told my dad. Help!
Very Personal StatementPrudie advises a survivor of abuse who is trying to avoid oversharing in a grad school application.
Help! I’m a Medical Professional, and I’m Starting to Hate My Patients.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Wobbly BedPrudie advises a letter writer who feels uncertain in the bedroom after an ex called their sex life only “OK, not great.”
Dear Prudence: The “Friend of the Devil” EditionPsychics keep trying to donate to my Christian organization. Help!
The Bath Runneth OverPrudie counsels a letter writer whose boyfriend’s sister has been a duplicitous and ungrateful host.
Help! My Crush Is Being Harassed by a Creepy Colleague. Is Now a Bad Time to Ask Her Out?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Rich Girl” EditionMy brother-in-law married rich and won’t shut up about his new lavish lifestyle. Help!
Party BouncerPrudie counsels a letter writer who wants to keep children out while the adults are drinking.
Help! My Friend Is About to Marry Someone Awful—and He Wants Me to Officiate the Wedding.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Grandma’s SecretPrudie counsels a letter writer whose DNA test revealed a surprising history that could disturb a family’s peace.
Dear Prudence: The “Wishin’ Boot” EditionMy current company is considering hiring my old boss from hell. Help!
Cancerous QuacksPrudie counsels a letter writer whose brother’s girlfriend is refusing to treat her cancer with modern medicine.
Help! My Boyfriend Thinks I’m a 7.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jarring AngerPrudie advises a letter writer whose normally sweet husband loses his temper with cyclists, pedestrians, and other strangers.
Moving ViolationI brought my ex-boyfriend to help my widowed friend clear out her house, and he helped himself to her stuff.
Dear Prudence: The “Go Dutch” EditionMy friend forces me to share a dish whenever she’s supposed to foot the bill. Help!
Personal DisclosurePrudie counsels a letter writer on having to divulge her abortions to her spouse.
Help! My Housemate Thinks I’m Heartless Because I Won’t Support His “Bro.”Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
More Than a HashtagPrudie advises a letter writer who doesn’t want to “come out” as a survivor via social media.
Help! My Emotionally Draining Friends Turn Every Get-Together Into a Therapy Session.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “On the Nose” EditionMy adult friend carries a doll with her and pretends it’s real. Help!