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One Smooch Over the Line

I kissed another man, twice. Now my husband wants a divorce.

July 12 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Therapist and the Critical Friend
July 11 2018 8:01 AMDear Prudence: The “Invisible Girl” EditionI left home because I was being treated unfairly, but I still miss my family. Help!
July 9 2018 3:45 PMHelp! My Very Devout Husband Doesn’t Know I’m Faking My Religious Belief.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
July 5 2018 6:00 AMKeeping It in the FamilyMy cousin is telling people I’m the father of her unborn baby.
July 4 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Unexpected Inheritance” EditionShould I conceal my mother’s abuse to get a $10 million inheritance? Help!
July 2 2018 3:21 PMHelp! A Married Supervisor Was Having Sex With a Much Younger Co-Worker—and I Walked In.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
June 28 2018 6:00 AMMy Brother, My Brother, and MeI have sex dreams about my siblings, and it makes me feel weird.
June 27 2018 9:22 AMDear Prudence Live ChatFor July 2, 2018.
June 26 2018 6:00 AMHelp! Why Do My Co-Workers Make Crass Jokes About Diabetes When They Know I’m Diabetic?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
June 21 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Bad Sister
June 20 2018 12:01 PMHelp! I’m Worried My Neighbor’s Kids Are Taking Pictures of Me Gardening in the Nude.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
June 19 2018 8:34 AMHelp! Should I Withhold Sex Until My Husband Agrees to Have a Vasectomy?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
June 14 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Dog-Lover and the Allergic Fiancée
June 13 2018 12:01 PMHelp! My Roommate Has a Gambling Problem and Wants Me to Loan Her Money.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
June 12 2018 8:28 AMHelp! My Friends Keep Inviting the Man Who Raped Me to Their Parties.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
July 11 2018 12:00 PMHelp! I’m Worried My Aunt Is Going to Serve My Son Spoiled Meat.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
July 10 2018 6:54 AMHelp! My Boyfriend Threw a Coffee Mug During an Argument. Am I in Danger?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
July 5 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Extrovert and the Introvert
July 4 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Why Does Mom Act Like She’s Embarrassed by My Volunteer Work?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
July 3 2018 6:00 AMHelp! Sometimes I Worry That My Infertile Friend Wants to Kidnap My Baby.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
June 28 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: the Brother-in-Law Who Downloaded Child Pornography
June 27 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Should I Move Back Home to Be Closer to My Aging Mom? Even if I Don’t Like It There?
June 27 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Is Cheating Ever OK?” EditionI’m engaged to a woman but having sexual fantasies about men. Help!
June 25 2018 4:05 PMHelp! My Sister-in-Law Stole Money From Her Kid to Pay Off Her Credit Cards.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
June 21 2018 6:00 AMPhoney BaloneyMy boyfriend told me his former boss sexually harassed him. Does the evidence I found on his phone tell a different story?
June 20 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Bullying Sister-in-Law” EditionMy brother married a woman who used to torment me growing up. How do I forgive her? Help!
June 18 2018 3:30 PMHelp! My Therapist Told My Husband to Lie to Me About His Infidelity.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
June 14 2018 6:00 AMBarking MadMy mom is obsessed with her dogs. My fiancée is allergic to them. I’m stuck in the middle.
June 13 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Demeaning My Co-Workers” EditionI have an illness that causes me to forget names, and I feel I’m disrespecting everyone at work. Help!
June 11 2018 3:48 PMHelp! My Husband Bought a Gravesite Without Telling Me, and He Didn’t Save Me a Spot.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.

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