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How Do I Break Up With My Doctor?

Prudie offers advice on elderly doctors and arguing parents.

Jan. 17 2019 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Wife’s Secret Past
Jan. 16 2019 12:00 PMHelp! My Husband Is Incapable of Remembering to Buy His Mom a Gift.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 15 2019 6:01 AMHelp! I’m Not Sure My Nephew Realizes That His Dad’s a Pedophile.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Jan. 11 2019 6:01 AMMy Sister-in-Law Wants More of Our Embryos, but She’s a Terrible ParentPrudie offers advice on donated embryos and baby names.
Jan. 10 2019 6:00 AMMy Dad Died. My Family Is Moving On, but I Can’t.Prudie’s column for Jan. 10.
Jan. 9 2019 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Always an Excuse” EditionMy boyfriend of three years has no respect for my time or my schedule. Is this grounds for breaking up? Help!
Jan. 7 2019 4:14 PMHelp! My Sister-in-Law Called Me a Baby Murderer, and My Husband Looked the Other Way.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Jan. 3 2019 2:07 PMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Nervous Jokester
Jan. 2 2019 8:30 AMDear Prudence: The “Up for Sitting Down” EditionI went to my holiday party after getting approved for medical leave, and now my co-workers are gossiping about it. Help!
Dec. 26 2018 2:00 PMHelp! I Think I’m Becoming a Social Recluse.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 25 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Mom Made an Epic Reply-All Blunder, and Oh What a Mess.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Dec. 20 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Financial Fiasco
Dec. 19 2018 12:00 PMHelp! I Put My Grandkids in Danger, and My Daughter-in-Law Won’t Forgive Me.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 18 2018 6:00 AMHelp! My Wife Thinks I’m Happy About Her Miscarriage.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Dec. 13 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Childless Friend
Jan. 17 2019 6:00 AMMy Wife Asked Me to Destroy Evidence of Her Secret Past. I Didn’t.Prudie’s column for Jan. 17.
Jan. 16 2019 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Overloaded Friend” EditionShould I tell my wife that our neighbor tried to kiss me? Help!
Jan. 14 2019 4:08 PMHelp! I’m Not Racist. I Just Love Dogs.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Jan. 10 2019 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Colleague Crush
Jan. 9 2019 12:00 PMHelp! I Think My Brother-in-Law’s Ex Is Stalking Our Family.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 8 2019 6:20 AMHelp! My Boyfriend Has Never Apologized to Me—Ever.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Jan. 4 2019 6:01 AMMy Mother’s Complaining Is Ruining My Wedding PlanningPrudie offers advice on wedding woes.
Jan. 3 2019 2:06 PMI’m Worried My Deaf Son Is Being Used as “Inspiration Porn”Prudie’s column for Jan. 3.
Dec. 27 2018 6:00 AMThe Best Dear Prudence Letters of 2018Prudie’s end-of-year recap.
Dec. 26 2018 8:30 AMDear Prudence: The “It’s Already Weird” EditionA co-worker keeps using a sexy voice with me, and I want him to stop. Help!
Dec. 24 2018 8:00 AMHelp! All He Wants for Christmas Is for Me to Donate to an Organization I Detest.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Dec. 20 2018 6:00 AMMy Husband and I Blew Through $3 Million. Now We’re Broke.Prudie’s column for Dec. 20.
Dec. 19 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Aren’t We Friends?” EditionI like to buy my work friend a coffee, but another colleague complains that she never gets treated. Help!
Dec. 17 2018 4:07 PMHelp! My Husband Told an Internet Forum That I Cheated On Him. I Didn’t.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Dec. 13 2018 6:00 AMOur Stepdaughter Sold the Presents We Gave Our Grandkids for ChristmasPrudie’s column for Dec. 13.

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