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June 29 2017 6:00 AMBiggest FanMy colleague sends me long, creepy emails about being “susceptible to my beauty.”
June 27 2017 8:15 AMTime to Get Away?Prudie advises a letter writer whose husband has very different opinions on how to vacation.
June 26 2017 3:58 PMHelp! My Friend’s a Belligerent Alcoholic, and She Wants an Invite to My Birthday Party.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
June 21 2017 7:06 AMDear Prudence: The “Dealbreaker” EditionMy son won’t let me talk to my daughter-in-law. Help!
June 19 2017 6:03 PMGreat ExpectationsPrudie advises a woman whose husband thinks it’s fine that she works and does all the parenting.
June 15 2017 6:00 AMAs Old As You FeelA 14-year-old girl responded to my ad on an ageplay dating site.
June 13 2017 6:00 AMUndercover LoverPrudie counsels a man whose wife wants him to get a girlfriend, but only if it’s kept secret.
June 12 2017 3:30 PMHelp! I Was Depressed and Neglected My Personal Hygiene. Do I Owe My Boss an Apology?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
June 7 2017 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Workplace Hazard” EditionMy slovenly employee keeps getting the whole staff sick. Help!
June 5 2017 3:03 PMOne for the MoneyPrudie advises a man who can’t convince his husband to return to his stressful but lucrative career.
June 1 2017 6:00 AMMidnight CowboyI had an erotic dream about a friend. Should I tell my boyfriend?
May 31 2017 9:44 AMNude BreachPrudie advises a letter writer whose boyfriend keeps a box of naked photos of his exes.
May 30 2017 3:44 PMHelp! My Boyfriend Wants to Keep Our Relationship a Secret—Forever.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
May 24 2017 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Death of the Ego” EditionHelp! How do I tell my friends and family I’m upset they bailed on my big birthday?
May 22 2017 2:55 PMWorth the WeightPrudie advises a letter writer whose friend became very attractive after losing 100 pounds.
June 28 2017 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Capitalism Is the Problem” EditionMy husband loves being a stay-at-home dad, but our friends make fun of him. Help!
June 26 2017 4:29 PMOpen and ClosedPrudie counsels a parent who wants a bisexual son to be happy—but date women.
June 22 2017 6:00 AMGoo Goo Gah GahI don’t know how to deal with my boss’s pregnancy problems.
June 20 2017 8:47 AMTragic FlawPrudie counsels a letter writer whose boyfriend lied about how his brother died.
June 19 2017 5:27 PMHelp! My Husband Is Having Sex With Our Marriage Counselor.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
June 14 2017 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Call 311” EditionI bought my son’s girlfriend a pregnancy test and her mom found out. Help!
June 12 2017 3:31 PMRunaway Pre-BridePrudie advises a letter writer who is fortysomething, wants to marry, but never likes a guy for more than a year.
June 8 2017 6:00 AMThree PigsMy brother-in-law set me up to be sexually assaulted by his friend, and my husband doesn’t care.
June 6 2017 6:00 AMThe Kid’s Not My GodsonPrudie counsels a man disowned for declining to godparent a friend’s child.
June 5 2017 3:00 PMHelp! My Boyfriend’s Friends Are Racist Bullies. Should I Dump Him?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
May 31 2017 2:00 PMDear Prudence: The “Resignation” EditionMy parents expect me to be their free marriage counselor. Help!
May 30 2017 3:54 PMLast-Minute ArrivalPrudie counsels a woman who left her child-free ex, only to find out she’s pregnant with his child.
May 25 2017 6:00 AMShe’s the BossI fear my friend is being manipulated and emotionally abused by his wife.
May 23 2017 8:30 AMMarriage Before SexPrudie counsels a woman whose gay best friend has proposed to her.
May 22 2017 2:51 PMHelp! I Told My Mom About My Depression. Now She’s Having a Breakdown.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.

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