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Nov. 3 2015 8:39 AMReligion Is for TurkeysPrudie counsels a letter writer whose atheist husband coopts Thanksgiving grace to rant about God.
Nov. 2 2015 3:09 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 29 2015 5:45 AMBoo HooMy son is being excluded from Halloween by neighborhood boys. Should I intervene?
Oct. 26 2015 3:22 PMTempeh TantrumPrudie advises a woman annoyed that her mother-in-law won’t make vegan snacks for the kids.
Oct. 26 2015 12:30 PMTemptation at the GymCan I still go running with a workout buddy I had an affair with?
Oct. 20 2015 5:45 AMStrangleholdPrudie counsels a woman whose husband won’t let her leave a room without paying a “hug toll.”
Oct. 19 2015 3:02 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 15 2015 6:15 AMBaaaaaadMy boyfriend practiced bestiality on his family farm as a teenager.
Oct. 12 2015 3:34 PMOutnumberedPrudie advises a sexually inexperienced woman whose boyfriend has been to orgies.
Oct. 10 2015 3:18 PMMy Super Secret MarriageCan I marry my boyfriend for insurance but keep it from my family?
Oct. 6 2015 5:45 AMTrust FailPrudie advises a woman who doesn’t want kids, so had an abortion without telling her husband.
Oct. 5 2015 2:50 PMHelp! I Want to Read More Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, for Slate Plus members. 
Oct. 1 2015 5:45 AMSinking FeelingI don’t know what my disturbed friend will do if we go on this cruise she planned.
Sept. 28 2015 3:28 PMWrecked ReputationPrudie counsels a letter writer on whether to tell the truth about a friend who died—and killed someone—driving drunk.
Sept. 24 2015 5:45 AMApple as My EyeMy live-in girlfriend used her iPad to spy on my daughter.
Nov. 2 2015 3:35 PMChastity VigilantePrudie advises a letter writer who wants to call the police on the teenage girl having sex next door.
Nov. 1 2015 6:00 AMPermission to Cheat?Dear Prudie, your advice has convinced me I can have a one-night affair.
Oct. 27 2015 6:15 AMSt. ElsewherePrudie counsels a pregnant woman worried she can’t trust her anti-abortion obstetrician. 
Oct. 26 2015 2:56 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear PrudencePrudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members. 
Oct. 22 2015 5:45 AMJust Say Augh!I’m pregnant, and my doctor father-in-law is being inappropriate and icky.
Oct. 19 2015 3:18 PMHe Seemed Like Such a Nice GuyPrudie offers advice on whether to tell a friend her boyfriend was once tried for murdering his roommate.
Oct. 17 2015 1:00 PMUnsexy Smoker I quit smoking, but my husband won’t. Now I don’t want to be intimate. 
Oct. 13 2015 8:34 AMDumped AgainPrudie counsels parents whose son wants them to cut off the ex-girlfriend they helped to raise.
Oct. 12 2015 3:31 PMMo’ Money, Mo’ ProblemsMore from Dear Prudence, only for Slate Plus members. 
Oct. 8 2015 6:10 AMTop-Down ManagementMy boss wants to tell work we’re dating, but I’m the one who has to quit.
Oct. 5 2015 2:58 PMBattle of the Baby NamePrudie advises a woman incredibly hurt that another couple gave their baby a name similar to theirs.
Oct. 3 2015 12:00 PMBoyfriend Who’s Gone M.I.A.He’s being forced to work 100-hour weeks by his famous tech company.
Sept. 29 2015 6:00 AMSouthern DiscomfortPrudie advises a student who feels pressure to take scholarship money from a Confederate organization.
Sept. 26 2015 2:06 PMCaretaker Who Wants to EscapeI do everything for my aging partner, but he’s offended I want to vacation alone.
Sept. 22 2015 9:07 AMMake a Name for YourselfPrudie advises a parent whose son’s name has an unfortunate meaning in their new country’s language.

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