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Dear Prudence: The “Family Matters” EditionPrudence and Juan-Pablo Brammer on low-key racism, in-law hookups, and other family affairs.
The Babysitter With No NamePrudie counsels a woman whose stepdaughter hates her but needs free child care.
Help! My Sister Gave Away an Heirloom Diamond. Is She Disrespecting Our Grandmother?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
The Right to Bare ArmsPrudie counsels a woman whose bridesmaids are refusing to wear long-sleeved dresses.
Help! My Grandma Found Out I’m Gay and Banned Me From Christmas.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Death, Sex, and Money” EditionAnna Sale joins Prudie to answer questions about breakups and boundaries.
When You’ve Seen OnePrudie advises a letter writer upset at being accused of thinking all Hispanic women look alike.
All About a BoyPrudie advises a letter writer whose wife dotes on their son to the exclusion of all else.
Help! I Am Always Tired Because of a Chronic Illness. Should I Have a Baby?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Insomnia” EditionMy best friend slept with my husband before he died. Should I confront her?
Starting the Year With a BangPrudie counsels a letter writer whose godson killed someone while driving drunk.
Dear Prudence: The “Rocky II” EditionHow can I persuade my wife to let me quit my job so I can play poker?
Help! My Parents Paid for My Brother’s Wedding, so Why Are They Refusing to Pay for Mine?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Timing Is Everything” EditionHow long to wait for a lover who’s missing at sea, the hard truth about finding true love, and the radical case for staying single.
Let Me Tell You SomethingPrudie advises a letter writer accused of mansplaining for offering to help.
Home Sour HomePrudie counsels a man who resents abandoning his dreams to help his wife care for her family.
Help! When We Have Sex, My Husband Climaxes in 10 Seconds.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: Live at the Now Hear This Podcast FestivalMy wife doesn’t speak English, and I’m sick of translating. Can I divorce her?