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Nov. 21 2016 4:35 PMHelp! My Mom Turns Pleasant Holidays Into Emotionally Charged Sympathy Sessions.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 16 2016 7:01 AMDear Prudence: The “Either/Or” EditionBinary choices, a Prudie impostor, and the limits of civility after Trump.
Nov. 14 2016 3:23 PMEvil JoyPrudie counsels a woman who can’t help but feel happy that her cheating ex and his mistress got in a car accident.
Nov. 10 2016 9:38 AMYou Know You Want OneMy sister-in-law keeps lecturing us on fertility treatments.
Nov. 8 2016 9:45 AMGuy and DollsPrudie counsels a man who’d rather hang out with the women at work.
Nov. 7 2016 4:00 PMHelp! My Adult Stepdaughter Frightens My Kids.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 2 2016 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Whaaaattt?!?” EditionIt turns out my friends are really racist.
Oct. 31 2016 3:38 PMThat’s No EmojiPrudie advises a man whose aunt saw a photo of genitalia on his phone and won’t let it go.
Oct. 27 2016 6:00 AMOff-ColorMy mostly white housemates held an exclusive “discussion on racism.”
Oct. 25 2016 9:33 AMThen There Were NonePrudie counsels a woman with no family whose stepdad says he never wanted her.
Oct. 24 2016 2:58 PMHelp! He Agreed to Move Out, so Why’s His Stuff Still Here?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 19 2016 8:04 AMDear Prudence: The “Devil’s Advocate” Edition, Part 2Man-whores, the limits of tradition, and why you should always use plasticware at family events.
Oct. 17 2016 4:18 PMIt MePrudie advises a man whose friend confessed on Facebook to being a rapist.
Oct. 13 2016 6:00 AMHitting the BottomMy friend beat his 2-year-old with a “cloth” belt.
Oct. 12 2016 7:34 AMDear Prudence: The “Devil’s Advocate” EditionLong-term grudges, marriage as an endurance sport, and the problem of the “benign” racist.
Nov. 17 2016 6:00 AMI Don’t Wanna Sex You UpI’m in danger of losing my asexuality—and everything good about me.
Nov. 15 2016 10:16 AMJust Being HonestPrudie advises a letter writer whose wife is upset at being compared unfavorably to previous exes.
Nov. 14 2016 3:22 PMHelp! I Think My Husband’s Poor Judgment Put Our Kids in Danger. Am I Overreacting?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 9 2016 5:23 PMDear Prudence: The “How Long?” EditionMy fiancée’s mother is sick. Does that mean she has to live with us forever?
Nov. 7 2016 4:01 PMLimited-Time OfferPrudie advises a woman not ready for kids, but whose boyfriend’s frozen sperm will expire soon.
Nov. 3 2016 6:00 AMFatal AttractionA guy I dated says I have to be with him—because he’s dying.
Nov. 1 2016 9:52 AMFabric of His LifePrudie counsels a woman wondering whether her boyfriend’s lingerie collection hints at something more.
Oct. 31 2016 3:37 PMHelp! My Husband’s New Co-Worker Is His Old Mistress.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 26 2016 7:15 AMDear Prudence: The “Good Intentions” EditionWhat to do when your stepfather tries to “boost your confidence” by telling you how hot you are.
Oct. 24 2016 3:43 PMNetflix UnchillPrudie advises a letter writer under pressure to share a streaming account.
Oct. 20 2016 6:00 AMA Good EggMy heartbroken sister-in-law wants our unused embryos.
Oct. 18 2016 10:45 AMLeave the Guy, Take the BorzoiPrudie counsels a letter writer who wants a doggy prenup in case of divorce.
Oct. 17 2016 4:14 PMHelp! My Friend Treats My Apartment Like a Hotel, and My Boyfriend Is Sick of It.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 12 2016 9:02 AMInvisible FriendPrudie counsels a woman whose boyfriend won’t let her meet his new female pal.
Oct. 11 2016 3:51 PMNot a Care in the WorldPrudie advises a letter writer whose cousin is a sociopath who stole a friend’s identity.

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