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Sept. 21 2015 3:33 PMBrothers’ BluesPrudie advises a man who cheated on his girlfriend, but she’s punishing his brother instead.
Sept. 17 2015 8:45 AMUrine TroubleMy nephew walked in on me peeing. Now his mother has started telling people I’m “pervy.”
Sept. 15 2015 4:19 PMMan ServantPrudie offers counsel about a man whose wife stays home and berates him while he works two jobs.
Sept. 10 2015 6:02 AMTrumped UpMy mother’s vitriolic support for the Donald is jeopardizing her job—and our relationship.
Sept. 8 2015 2:51 PMI Won’t Be Home for ChristmasPrudie counsels a woman whose sister makes family holiday visits miserable.
Sept. 3 2015 5:30 AMLong-Lost FriendMy best friend died in the second grade. I want to share how special she was before I forget.
Aug. 31 2015 3:38 PMGiant Sucking SoundPrudie offers advice about a co-worker who pumps breast milk in the middle of the open office.
Aug. 26 2015 10:00 AMAshley Madison? Don’t Know Her.I found my husband in the cheating website’s hacked user list.
Aug. 24 2015 3:00 PMTake My Breath AwayPrudie advises a woman turned off by her date’s fart.
Aug. 19 2015 3:05 PMTraveling With a Cheapskate SlobMy friend always eats off my plate at restaurants and never cleans up her mess.
Aug. 17 2015 3:13 PMShort HaulPrudie advises a woman dating a 26-year-old divorcé whose last girlfriend was a mother of three teens.
Aug. 12 2015 5:49 PMThe Dangers of TinderI briefly logged on to Tinder in a moment of boredom. Then my girlfriend found out.
Aug. 10 2015 2:41 PMWeb of LiesPrudie advises a woman who used a background check website on her boyfriend and doesn’t like what she saw.
Aug. 5 2015 9:00 AMOut of DatePrudie advises a letter writer whose brother’s boyfriend has been banned from Grandma’s sight.
July 30 2015 7:30 AMWhere Do You Get Off?My wife always said she couldn’t orgasm during sex. But she can—just not with me.
Sept. 19 2015 1:00 PMThe STD Talk That Didn’t HappenI slept with a man without telling him I have herpes.
Sept. 16 2015 9:40 AMTo Like and to CherishPrudie advises a man whose wife has no idea they met because he saw her first on social media.
Sept. 12 2015 1:03 PMPage-TurnerI read my girlfriend’s sex diaries, and I can’t stop thinking about her past lovers.
Sept. 9 2015 9:02 AMCold ComfortPrudie advises a woman whose husband put their dying pet rat in the freezer.
Sept. 5 2015 1:00 PMMeet Not-So-CuteI don’t want my husband to tell people we met in recovery.
Sept. 1 2015 9:03 AMYou Look Just Like HerPrudie counsels a woman whose husband wants her to dress up during sex—as someone they know.
Aug. 30 2015 9:15 PMHomewrecker at the WeddingHow should I include my father’s girlfriend at my nuptials?
Aug. 25 2015 9:17 AMRubbed the Wrong WayPrudie counsels a letter writer whose husband wants foot massages from their daughter.
Aug. 20 2015 5:00 AMThe Other ManMy husband of 30 years is devastated by the death of his male affair partner.
Aug. 18 2015 9:00 AMSister, WifePrudie counsels a woman who married her stepbrother.
Aug. 13 2015 5:00 AMBall BusterMy brother lost a testicle in an accident. Now he won’t stop punching mine.
Aug. 11 2015 7:00 AMMoney for NothingPrudie counsels a recent grad whose best friend can afford to turn down jobs and eat $75 brunches.
Aug. 6 2015 5:00 AMWho Wants to Beg a Millionaire?My husband’s brother won the lottery but hasn’t offered to help us out.
Aug. 4 2015 3:11 PMLeft Holding the BabyPrudie counsels a woman asked to care for the child her ex-husband had with his affair partner.
July 29 2015 3:01 PMAliens at the Engagement PartyMy husband-to-be has a serious interest in UFOs.

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