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Singular AssaultPrudie advises a letter writer who was once sexually assaulted by their current partner.
Help! Whose Parents Are Supposed to Pay for the Reception at a Gay Wedding?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Very Suggestive TextsPrudie counsels a letter writer who is trying to protect her marriage after acting on a crush at a company holiday party.
Dear Prudence: The “Personal ATM” EditionI’ve given my friend thousands of dollars, and she keeps asking for more. Help!
Help! My Boyfriend Doesn’t Think Trump Is Racist. I Should Dump Him, Right?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Help! I’m Graduating College. He’s Graduating High School. Should I Ask Him Out?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Schrödinger’s Stolen Cat” EditionI took in an uncollared, unchipped cat as my own, but then I saw a “missing cat” poster that looked like my pet. Help!
Relationship UnmooredPrudie counsels a letter writer who is bothered by her boyfriend’s refusal to condemn Senate candidate Roy Moore.
Help! I Lost a Tooth, and It’s Ruining My Dating Life.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
That Magic FeelingPrudie counsels a letter writer on whether you can feel when you’re with the right person.
Hurt FelinesMy teenage neighbor ran over my cat while texting. Now her parents want me to help her with her guilt.
Dear Prudence: The “Oh Roger” EditionHow do I tell my kids that their dad is getting remarried just three weeks after our divorce? Help!
Spectrum of SupportPrudie advises a letter writer whose sister refuses to make special accommodations for her son's autism spectrum disorder.
Dear Prudence: The “Eternally Engaged” EditionMy fiancé has been putting off our wedding for five years. Help!
In Love With a TrutherPrudie advises a letter writer who’s dating “a really great guy” who happens to think 9/11 was an inside job.
Dear Prudence: The “Selfish Sister” EditionMy older sibling wasn’t a part of my life, but now she’s sick and wants to me tend to her every need. Help!
Indelibly OmPrudie counsels a letter writer who regrets getting a tattoo she now regards as culturally insensitive.
Toy StoryPrudie advises a letter writer who is considering legal action after her mother gave away a prized doll collection.
Dear Prudence: The “Dirty Secret” EditionI cheated on my partner, but I want to break up for other reasons. Do I need to come clean? Help!
Baby’s First SermonPrudie advises a couple who wants a grandmother to stop trying to convert their infant son into her faith.
Help! I’m Tired of Being His Secret Girlfriend.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.