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Feb. 2 2017 10:15 AMRisky BusinessI told my office buddy I have a crush on him (but I’m not single).
Jan. 31 2017 8:15 AMSave Yourself!Prudie counsels a letter writer debating whether to warn people not to apply for a job at the same company.
Jan. 30 2017 3:31 PMHelp! My Boyfriend’s Roommate Is a “Progressive” Blowhard.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 26 2017 6:00 AMStraight Trippin’I think my daughter may be gay, but I hope not.
Jan. 24 2017 9:25 AMFull HousePrudie advises a letter writer disturbed that a friend moved her family in with another family.
Jan. 23 2017 3:00 PMHelp! My Friend Wants Me to Throw Her a Shower—but the Doctor Says Her Baby Won’t Survive.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 18 2017 1:15 PMDear Prudence: The “Giving Tree” EditionI’m convinced my husband had an affair with his boss—can I email her?
Jan. 17 2017 3:16 PMFed to DeathPrudie advises a letter writer who feels endangered by the boss’ snacks.
Jan. 12 2017 6:00 AMBe-TwixedMy wife’s job causes her to hoard candy bars and snap at every little thing.
Jan. 10 2017 9:07 AMAll About a BoyPrudie advises a letter writer whose wife dotes on their son to the exclusion of all else.
Jan. 9 2017 2:40 PMHelp! I Am Always Tired Because of a Chronic Illness. Should I Have a Baby?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 4 2017 2:00 PMDear Prudence: The “Insomnia” EditionMy best friend slept with my husband before he died. Should I confront her?
Jan. 3 2017 3:05 PMStarting the Year With a BangPrudie counsels a letter writer whose godson killed someone while driving drunk.
Dec. 29 2016 9:00 AMEmergency ReleaseMy husband won’t sleep with me. Can I have sex with a friend?
Dec. 28 2016 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Rocky II” EditionHow can I persuade my wife to let me quit my job so I can play poker?
Feb. 1 2017 9:59 AMDear Prudence: The “Chasing Amy” EditionI’m gay, but I slept with a woman … and I liked it!
Jan. 30 2017 3:52 PMIt’s All Coming Out NowPrudie advises a half-Latina letter writer whose aunt chanted “build a wall” at dinner.
Jan. 30 2017 12:00 PMDear Prudence Live ChatFor Jan. 30, 2017.
Jan. 25 2017 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Young Guns” EditionPrudie and writer Jane Coaston on how to handle a mom who keeps playing the cancer card, and more.
Jan. 23 2017 3:16 PMQueer Come LatelyPrudie advises a woman who suffered as the lesbian in the family, only for her sister to now say she’s bisexual.
Jan. 19 2017 6:00 AMWhisper Sweet DiagnosesShould I tell my insensitive boyfriend I think he’s on the autism spectrum?
Jan. 18 2017 6:00 AMTchotchkes From HeavenPrudie counsels a letter writer whose family wants to make keepsakes from Dad’s ashes.
Jan. 17 2017 3:15 PMHelp! My Boyfriend Recently Dated a Much Younger Woman, and It Creeps Me Out.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 11 2017 12:06 PMDear Prudence: The “Family Matters” EditionPrudence and Juan-Pablo Brammer on low-key racism, in-law hookups, and other family affairs.
Jan. 9 2017 2:47 PMThe Babysitter With No NamePrudie counsels a woman whose stepdaughter hates her but needs free child care.
Jan. 5 2017 6:00 AMSapphic SecretMy wife doesn’t really enjoy sex. I suspect she might be a lesbian.
Jan. 4 2017 10:27 AMFree to RoamPrudie advises a woman determined to go without a cellphone.
Jan. 3 2017 3:04 PMHelp! My Sister Gave Away an Heirloom Diamond. Is She Disrespecting Our Grandmother?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 28 2016 7:37 AMSave Your BreathPrudie counsels a letter writer whose roommate isn’t fixing her bad breath.
Dec. 27 2016 3:10 PMWife CrisisPrudie advises a lesbian who fears breaking up her heterosexual marriage.

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