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April 5 2018 6:00 AMTight QuartersI’m a 30-year-old woman, and my parents expect me to share a bed with my brother.
April 4 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Wizard Privilege” EditionMy wife often makes classic book protagonists female. I’m worried our daughter will be confused when she reads them herself. Help!
April 2 2018 3:03 PMHelp! I’m Terrified That My Mental Illness Is Going to Ruin My Relationship.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
March 29 2018 6:00 AMNo Laughing MatterMy boss made fun of my hearing loss.
March 28 2018 8:30 AMDear Prudence: The “Falling for My Co-Parent” EditionI took over custody of my sister’s son, and now I think I’m in love with his father. Help!
March 26 2018 3:24 PMHelp! My Friends’ Kid Spilled Juice on My Expensive Laptop. Do They Owe Me a New One?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
March 22 2018 6:00 AMBi, Bi, BabyHow can I tell the women I date that I’m bisexual?
March 21 2018 8:30 AMDear Prudence: The “Spousal Acknowledgement” EditionMy husband wasn’t helpful as I was writing my first book. Do I need to include him in the acknowledgements? Help!
March 19 2018 2:57 PMHelp! A Nasty Co-Worker Is Trying to Get Me Fired.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
March 15 2018 6:00 AMDon’t Want to Be Starting SomethingMy husband never initiates sex with me.
March 14 2018 8:30 AMDear Prudence: The “Holidays of Their Own Design” EditionMy spouse’s family insists on taking photos with “blood relatives only.” Help!
March 12 2018 2:56 PMHelp! My Dentist Kissed Me Twice on the Forehead.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
March 7 2018 12:00 PMHelp! How Do I Get Him to Pay More Child Support if His Income Is “Not Exactly Legal”?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 6 2018 8:20 AMHelp! I Inherited Thousands of Family Photos When Dad Died. I Can’t Throw Them Out, Right?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
March 1 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Ungrateful Son
April 4 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Do I Have to Spend Holidays With My Partner’s Ex-Wife?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
April 3 2018 8:00 AMHelp! My Wife Just Had a Baby. How Should I Tell Her I Want an Open Relationship?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
March 29 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Immature Boss
March 28 2018 12:30 PMHelp! My Biological Mom Wants Me to Disown My Adoptive Mom.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 27 2018 8:20 AMHelp! My Friend Acts Like He’s Playing Devil’s Advocate—but Maybe He’s Just Racist?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
March 22 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Defensive BossDear Prudence Uncensored: The Defensive Boss
March 21 2018 12:00 PMHelp! Why Is He Confiding in Me? I Don’t Even Like Him.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 20 2018 7:56 AMHelp! My Roommate’s Wealthy Parents Want to Pay Me to Stay Friends With Their Daughter.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
March 15 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Friend’s Abusive Boyfriend
March 14 2018 12:00 PMHelp! A Stranger Exposed Himself to Me in Public. My Husband Says It’s No Big Deal.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
March 13 2018 8:22 AMHelp! I’m Failing at the Job I Always Wanted. What Does That Say About Me?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
March 8 2018 6:00 AMMy Boyfriend’s Sugar MommyI’m jealous of my partner’s patron.
March 7 2018 10:30 AMDear Prudence: The “Early Summer Chicken” EditionHow do I navigate work-life balance when my relationship causes conflicts of interest? Help!
March 5 2018 3:53 PMHelp! My Sister Thinks My Pregnancy Is Ruining Her Wedding.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
March 1 2018 6:00 AMRich-People ProblemsMy co-workers make fun of trust-fund babies. They don’t know I am one.

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