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Jan. 14 2016 6:00 AMSo-So ManSomeone I hardly know asked me to be the best man at his wedding.
Jan. 11 2016 3:50 PMWoman on the SidePrudie counsels a wife whose husband cares more about the woman he cross-dresses as than his family.
Jan. 7 2016 6:15 AMTo Have or Have NotOur mentally disabled daughter is pregnant. Should we take her for an abortion?
Jan. 4 2016 4:02 PMPermission SlipPrudie advises a parent unsure whether to let a daughter’s girlfriend stay with them if her parents don’t know she’s gay.
Dec. 31 2015 6:00 AMLet It Pee?My brother-in-law urinates all over my bathroom floor.
Dec. 28 2015 3:29 PMHelicopter FamilyPrudie counsels a letter writer whose family has become manipulative after helping end an abusive marriage.
Dec. 24 2015 6:00 AMAn Immodest ProposalWould it emasculate my boyfriend if I asked him to marry me?
Dec. 21 2015 4:03 PMDo It for the KidsPrudie counsels a man who doesn’t want his partner to impregnate a lesbian friend the old-fashioned way.
Dec. 17 2015 6:00 AMCanine ConundrumShould I dognap my neighbors’ neglected pup?
Dec. 14 2015 3:36 PMWeight WatcherPrudie advises a man who lost all feelings for his wife after she gained 50 pounds.
Dec. 10 2015 5:30 AMBang, BangMy family carries concealed guns around my 2-year-old son.
Dec. 7 2015 3:02 PMA Lighter Shade of PalePrudie advises a woman who worries that looking white makes it rude of her to ask people’s ethnicities.
Dec. 3 2015 6:00 AMKitchen StinkThe restaurant staff think I can’t understand when they call me anti-gay slurs in Spanish.
Nov. 30 2015 3:47 PMGirl, UninterruptiblePrudie advises a letter writer upset over a college freshman daughter’s lack of contact.
Nov. 25 2015 5:11 PMTale of the TapeMy family wants to screen an old home movie of them being horrible to me at Christmas.
Jan. 12 2016 8:18 AMBoomerang BluesPrudie counsels a parent whose adult son lives at home but pretends his family doesn’t exist.
Jan. 11 2016 3:16 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Jan. 5 2016 6:30 AMDie, Bundle of Twigs!Prudie counsels a woman whose boyfriend uses anti-gay slurs only when playing video games.
Jan. 4 2016 4:01 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 29 2015 8:10 AMThe Green StuffPrudie advises a woman struggling with resentment after her ex’s new wife helped her through a difficult time.
Dec. 28 2015 2:35 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 22 2015 10:18 AMOpen Shut CasePrudie advises a letter writer who feels guilty for not performing oral sex.
Dec. 21 2015 3:13 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 15 2015 8:59 AMFighting for a CausePrudie offers advice on whether to donate to Planned Parenthood in the name of conservative family members.
Dec. 14 2015 2:51 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 8 2015 6:15 AMSpectrum DiscordPrudie offers advice about an autistic nephew who always melts down during Christmas.
Dec. 7 2015 3:00 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members. 
Dec. 1 2015 9:14 AMQualms for the PoorPrudie counsels a letter writer who thinks giving to needy children rewards parents for bad behavior.
Nov. 30 2015 3:45 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 24 2015 5:45 AMEdge of DisasterPrudie advises a letter writer afraid of letting a bad-driver friend drive them on snowy cliffs. 

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