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Jan. 3 2017 3:04 PMHelp! My Sister Gave Away an Heirloom Diamond. Is She Disrespecting Our Grandmother?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 28 2016 7:37 AMSave Your BreathPrudie counsels a letter writer whose roommate isn’t fixing her bad breath.
Dec. 27 2016 3:10 PMWife CrisisPrudie advises a lesbian who fears breaking up her heterosexual marriage.
Dec. 22 2016 6:00 AMAll Dried OutI want to stop drinking, but how will I make it through the holidays?
Dec. 20 2016 9:45 AMThe Right to Bare ArmsPrudie counsels a woman whose bridesmaids are refusing to wear long-sleeved dresses.
Dec. 19 2016 3:26 PMHelp! My Grandma Found Out I’m Gay and Banned Me From Christmas.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 14 2016 7:31 AMDear Prudence: The “Death, Sex, and Money” EditionAnna Sale joins Prudie to answer questions about breakups and boundaries.
Dec. 12 2016 4:02 PMWhen You’ve Seen OnePrudie advises a letter writer upset at being accused of thinking all Hispanic women look alike.
Dec. 8 2016 9:15 AMHeart on FireMy friend’s baby died, and now she wants to burn the cot she borrowed.
Dec. 6 2016 9:40 AMThe Other LifePrudie advises a letter writer whose dying grandmother once loved another woman.
Dec. 5 2016 4:12 PMHelp! I Made a Spectacularly Unsmooth Move on My Co-Worker.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 30 2016 7:19 AMDear Prudence: The “Anger Management” EditionI secretly had a child with my pastor and gave her up for adoption. Do I tell her his name and ruin his life?
Nov. 28 2016 3:42 PMShe’ll Come AroundPrudie advises a gay woman whose straight guy friend keeps bringing up “date ideas.”
Nov. 24 2016 6:00 AMPetting SoundsMy brother-in-law tried to eavesdrop on us having sex.
Nov. 22 2016 9:08 AMI Before WePrudie advises a letter writer whose sister’s refusal to spell correctly is having deleterious family effects.
Dec. 29 2016 9:00 AMEmergency ReleaseMy husband won’t sleep with me. Can I have sex with a friend?
Dec. 28 2016 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Rocky II” EditionHow can I persuade my wife to let me quit my job so I can play poker?
Dec. 27 2016 3:09 PMHelp! My Parents Paid for My Brother’s Wedding, so Why Are They Refusing to Pay for Mine?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 21 2016 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Timing Is Everything” EditionHow long to wait for a lover who’s missing at sea, the hard truth about finding true love, and the radical case for staying single.
Dec. 19 2016 3:27 PMLet Me Tell You SomethingPrudie advises a letter writer accused of mansplaining for offering to help.
Dec. 15 2016 6:00 AMZero Tolerance MarriageMy husband lectures me for hours if I make a mistake.
Dec. 13 2016 9:14 AMHome Sour HomePrudie counsels a man who resents abandoning his dreams to help his wife care for her family.
Dec. 12 2016 4:01 PMHelp! When We Have Sex, My Husband Climaxes in 10 Seconds.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 7 2016 7:00 AMDear Prudence: Live at the Now Hear This Podcast FestivalMy wife doesn’t speak English, and I’m sick of translating. Can I divorce her?
Dec. 5 2016 4:17 PMNot Ready for My Close-UpPrudie counsels an artist who can’t shake off scathing blog reviews.
Dec. 1 2016 6:00 AMOnce and Future FlameHow do I tell my ex and kids I want to be with the woman I had an affair with?
Nov. 29 2016 9:11 AMBreaking PointPrudie counsels a woman suffering through her boyfriend’s fetish for high heels.
Nov. 28 2016 3:18 PMHelp! I Got Pregnant. Then My Lying Sister Claimed She Was Too.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 23 2016 10:13 AMDear Prudence: The “Missing the Point” EditionPrudie stages an intervention with a woman who can’t quite admit that she’s a stalker.
Nov. 21 2016 4:36 PMInsult to InjuryPrudie counsels a woman whose father called her an “idiot” for not reporting her rape at the time.

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