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Nov. 8 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: Babies Everywhere
Nov. 7 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Cousin Is Taking Advantage of My Mom to Get Free Child Care.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 6 2018 8:15 AMDear Prudence Live ChatFor Nov. 12, 2018.
Nov. 5 2018 3:59 PMHelp! Why Won’t My Skinny, Well-Endowed Wife Wear the Low-Cut Shirts I Buy Her?Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Oct. 31 2018 1:19 PMHelp! My In-Laws Told Their Son to Get a Paternity Test When I Got Pregnant.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 30 2018 6:00 AMHelp! My Daughter Got Some Quack to Diagnose Her With ADHD, but I Think She’s Just Lazy.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Oct. 25 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Startup Dress Code
Oct. 24 2018 12:00 PMHelp! My Ex-Mother-in-Law Won’t Let My Twins Be Independent.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 23 2018 8:00 AMHelp! My Wife Struggles With Connecting With People and Building Friendships.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Oct. 18 2018 6:00 AMI’m a Single Dad, My Health Is Collapsing, and I’m Almost Broke. Should I Start a Business?Prudie’s column for Oct. 18.
Oct. 17 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Fun, Flirty Friends” EditionI’m friends with a couple, and one of them keeps sending me sexy photos. Is it wrong that I enjoy them? Help!
Oct. 15 2018 2:42 PMHelp! I Want to Talk About My Weight Issues, but My Friends Keep Shutting Me Down.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Oct. 11 2018 6:00 AMI Told My Partner About My Sexual Assault. He Told Me to “Get Over It.”Prudie’s column for Oct. 11.
Oct. 10 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Brother Betrayal” EditionMy older brother sexually abused me growing up. How do I confront him now? Help!
Oct. 9 2018 2:29 PMHelp! My Fiancé Is Mad That I Want to Keep My First Husband’s Last Name.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Nov. 8 2018 6:00 AMMy Wife Is Dying. Does That Mean I Have to Be Lonely?Prudie’s column for Nov. 8.
Nov. 7 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Enough is Enough” EditionMy husband gaslights me and makes me feel unloved. Help!
Nov. 6 2018 6:00 AMHelp! My Sister Thinks I’m Ruining Thanksgiving Because I Hired a Caterer.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Nov. 1 2018 6:00 AMI’m Estranged From My Parents, but I Tell People They’re DeadPrudie’s column for Nov. 1.
Oct. 31 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Shy Spy” EditionI have a top-secret job that I can’t talk about. How do I not scare off dates? Help!
Oct. 29 2018 2:36 PMHelp! My 11-Year-Old Daughter Has Ruined My Oldest Friendship.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Oct. 25 2018 6:00 AMMy Mother Is Struggling After Her Father’s Suicide.Prudie’s column for Oct. 25.
Oct. 24 2018 8:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Misguided Text” EditionWhenever I suggest to friends that we jump from texting to talking, they think I’m angry. Help!
Oct. 22 2018 3:27 PMHelp! Everyone Loves My Boyfriend’s Ex. I Wish She Would Just Go Away.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week’s live chat.
Oct. 17 2018 3:59 PMHelp! Should I Move to Get Back With an Ex-Boyfriend?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 16 2018 6:01 AMHelp! My Boss Keeps Talking About Wanting to Kill Herself.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Oct. 11 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Check-Bouncing Boyfriend
Oct. 10 2018 1:51 PMHelp! The Person Interviewing Me for My Dream Job Might Hate Me.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 10 2018 6:05 AMHelp! I Forced My Husband to Have Kids. It Was a Terrible Mistake.Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat.
Oct. 4 2018 6:01 AMDear Prudence Uncensored: The Stay-at-Home Mom’s Husband

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