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Oct. 27 2016 6:00 AMOff-ColorMy mostly white housemates held an exclusive “discussion on racism.”
Oct. 25 2016 9:33 AMThen There Were NonePrudie counsels a woman with no family whose stepdad says he never wanted her.
Oct. 24 2016 2:58 PMHelp! He Agreed to Move Out, so Why’s His Stuff Still Here?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 19 2016 8:04 AMDear Prudence: The “Devil’s Advocate” Edition, Part 2Man-whores, the limits of tradition, and why you should always use plasticware at family events.
Oct. 17 2016 4:18 PMIt MePrudie advises a man whose friend confessed on Facebook to being a rapist.
Oct. 13 2016 6:00 AMHitting the BottomMy friend beat his 2-year-old with a “cloth” belt.
Oct. 12 2016 7:34 AMDear Prudence: The “Devil’s Advocate” EditionLong-term grudges, marriage as an endurance sport, and the problem of the “benign” racist.
Oct. 11 2016 11:59 AMHelp! My Friend Yelled at My Child for No Reason.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 5 2016 7:00 AMDear Prudence: The “Boundaries” EditionSetting boundaries at work, at home, and on your podcast.
Oct. 3 2016 3:26 PMAcceptance and DenialPrudie counsels a woman whose mother doesn’t understand how she can be gay after being raped.
Sept. 29 2016 6:00 AMGone and ForgottenMy stepson died, and all I feel is relief.
Sept. 27 2016 10:14 AMNuts on DatesPrudie counsels a 32-year-old virgin too anxious to go out with women.
Sept. 26 2016 3:15 PMHelp! I Don’t Know if I’m Ready to Be a Mom.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 21 2016 6:01 AMDear Prudence: The “Talk About It Now” EditionThe great lie that is “he doesn’t really mean it.”
Sept. 19 2016 3:16 PMNoise ComplaintPrudie counsels a letter writer who was labeled as “LOUD neighbor” in an email.
Oct. 26 2016 7:15 AMDear Prudence: The “Good Intentions” EditionWhat to do when your stepfather tries to “boost your confidence” by telling you how hot you are.
Oct. 24 2016 3:43 PMNetflix UnchillPrudie advises a letter writer under pressure to share a streaming account.
Oct. 20 2016 6:00 AMA Good EggMy heartbroken sister-in-law wants our unused embryos.
Oct. 18 2016 10:45 AMLeave the Guy, Take the BorzoiPrudie counsels a letter writer who wants a doggy prenup in case of divorce.
Oct. 17 2016 4:14 PMHelp! My Friend Treats My Apartment Like a Hotel, and My Boyfriend Is Sick of It.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Oct. 12 2016 9:02 AMInvisible FriendPrudie counsels a woman whose boyfriend won’t let her meet his new female pal.
Oct. 11 2016 3:51 PMNot a Care in the WorldPrudie advises a letter writer whose cousin is a sociopath who stole a friend’s identity.
Oct. 6 2016 6:00 AMFocused on the Family?My parents give all their money to loathsome charities but won’t pay for a trip to visit me.
Oct. 4 2016 7:02 AMMy Door Isn’t Always OpenPrudie counsels a college professor who isn’t sure how to end a too-friendly relationship with a student.
Oct. 3 2016 3:25 PMHelp! I Never Want to See My Daughter Again. How Do I Tell Her?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Sept. 28 2016 10:15 AMDear Prudence: The “Creative Solutions” EditionDeath-obsessed in-laws, ruining your husband’s closest friendship, and charging your friends when you roast them a chicken.
Sept. 26 2016 3:31 PMNothing Like the Real GenePrudie advises a man whose wife thinks her stepchildren don’t count as her kids.
Sept. 22 2016 6:00 AMPuppy vs. BabyMy sister-in-law says we stole the names of her future children for our dogs.
Sept. 20 2016 6:02 AMMum’s the WordPrudie advises a letter writer whose siblings don’t know about their mom’s planned infidelity.
Sept. 19 2016 3:15 PMHelp! We Live Together. We’re in Each Other’s Wills. Is He Really Just My “Boyfriend”?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.

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