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Dec. 21 2015 4:03 PMDo It for the KidsPrudie counsels a man who doesn’t want his partner to impregnate a lesbian friend the old-fashioned way.
Dec. 17 2015 6:00 AMCanine ConundrumShould I dognap my neighbors’ neglected pup?
Dec. 14 2015 3:36 PMWeight WatcherPrudie advises a man who lost all feelings for his wife after she gained 50 pounds.
Dec. 10 2015 5:30 AMBang, BangMy family carries concealed guns around my 2-year-old son.
Dec. 7 2015 3:02 PMA Lighter Shade of PalePrudie advises a woman who worries that looking white makes it rude of her to ask people’s ethnicities.
Dec. 3 2015 6:00 AMKitchen StinkThe restaurant staff think I can’t understand when they call me anti-gay slurs in Spanish.
Nov. 30 2015 3:47 PMGirl, UninterruptiblePrudie advises a letter writer upset over a college freshman daughter’s lack of contact.
Nov. 25 2015 5:11 PMTale of the TapeMy family wants to screen an old home movie of them being horrible to me at Christmas.
Nov. 23 2015 3:41 PMRoll Over, TchaikovskyPrudie advises a letter writer whose granddaughter refuses to see The Nutcracker.
Nov. 19 2015 6:15 AMSomewhere Out ThereI moved to Dubai but told my parents I’m in Tokyo.
Nov. 16 2015 3:10 PMThe Truth About CharliePrudie counsels a couple who want to give their daughter a “boy’s name.”
Nov. 16 2015 8:26 AMDear Mallory“It was like being asked if I wanted to be Santa Claus, or happiness.” The new Prudence tells all.
Nov. 13 2015 4:19 PMI’ll Never Forget How Prudie Helped MeLetters from fans and advisees about how Dear Prudence’s Emily Yoffe changed their lives. 
Nov. 12 2015 6:30 AMDon’t Call It ClosureSaying goodbye as Dear Prudence.
Nov. 9 2015 3:42 PMHappy to HelpThe outgoing Dear Prudence on the joy of giving advice and why she is drawn to dysfunctional families.
Dec. 21 2015 3:13 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 15 2015 8:59 AMFighting for a CausePrudie offers advice on whether to donate to Planned Parenthood in the name of conservative family members.
Dec. 14 2015 2:51 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Dec. 8 2015 6:15 AMSpectrum DiscordPrudie offers advice about an autistic nephew who always melts down during Christmas.
Dec. 7 2015 3:00 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members. 
Dec. 1 2015 9:14 AMQualms for the PoorPrudie counsels a letter writer who thinks giving to needy children rewards parents for bad behavior.
Nov. 30 2015 3:45 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 24 2015 5:45 AMEdge of DisasterPrudie advises a letter writer afraid of letting a bad-driver friend drive them on snowy cliffs. 
Nov. 23 2015 3:37 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 17 2015 5:45 AMAmour FeuPrudie advises a letter writer who carries cigarettes—just to meet women who smoke.
Nov. 16 2015 3:01 PMHelp! I Can’t Get Enough Dear Prudence.Prudie answers more of your questions, only for Slate Plus members.
Nov. 14 2015 8:45 PMPrudie’s Most Popular VideosThe Emily Yoffe segments readers watched most.  
Nov. 12 2015 9:17 AMDear Prudie, From PrudieEmily Yoffe’s advice to her successor, Mallory Ortberg.
Nov. 10 2015 6:11 AM“How Lucky I Am”The outgoing Dear Prudence on how readers have humbled her and why change is bittersweet.
Nov. 5 2015 6:30 AMLabor of LoveI care for my slowly dying husband, and I’m pregnant by another man.

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