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Hurt FelinesMy teenage neighbor ran over my cat while texting. Now her parents want me to help her with her guilt.
Dear Prudence: The “Oh Roger” EditionHow do I tell my kids that their dad is getting remarried just three weeks after our divorce? Help!
Spectrum of SupportPrudie advises a letter writer whose sister refuses to make special accommodations for her son's autism spectrum disorder.
Help! My Closeted Boyfriend Was Only Dating Me Because He Wanted to Be Straight.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Not Her Only MomPrudie advises a mother who wants her adopted daughter to learn the truth about the tragic deaths of her birth parents.
Finders Keepers, Cheaters WeepersI kicked out my terrible ex-boyfriend. Then I found $10,000 in cash that he left behind.
Dear Prudence: The “Drama Tornado” EditionI shared some confidential information with my therapist, and then she told my dad. Help!
Very Personal StatementPrudie advises a survivor of abuse who is trying to avoid oversharing in a grad school application.
Help! I’m a Medical Professional, and I’m Starting to Hate My Patients.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Wobbly BedPrudie advises a letter writer who feels uncertain in the bedroom after an ex called their sex life only “OK, not great.”
Dear Prudence: The “Friend of the Devil” EditionPsychics keep trying to donate to my Christian organization. Help!
The Bath Runneth OverPrudie counsels a letter writer whose boyfriend’s sister has been a duplicitous and ungrateful host.
Help! My Crush Is Being Harassed by a Creepy Colleague. Is Now a Bad Time to Ask Her Out?Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Help! I’m Tired of Being His Secret Girlfriend.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Dear Prudence: The “Master of Disaster” EditionMy friend is a total klutz. How do I explain I don’t want her holding my newborn? Help!
Sexy ClausPrudie counsels a father who walked in on his daughter while she was having sex with her costumed boyfriend.
Help! My Friend Is About to Marry Someone Awful—and He Wants Me to Officiate the Wedding.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Grandma’s SecretPrudie counsels a letter writer whose DNA test revealed a surprising history that could disturb a family’s peace.
Dear Prudence: The “Wishin’ Boot” EditionMy current company is considering hiring my old boss from hell. Help!
Cancerous QuacksPrudie counsels a letter writer whose brother’s girlfriend is refusing to treat her cancer with modern medicine.
Help! My Boyfriend Thinks I’m a 7.Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members.
Jarring AngerPrudie advises a letter writer whose normally sweet husband loses his temper with cyclists, pedestrians, and other strangers.
Moving ViolationI brought my ex-boyfriend to help my widowed friend clear out her house, and he helped himself to her stuff.
Dear Prudence: The “Go Dutch” EditionMy friend forces me to share a dish whenever she’s supposed to foot the bill. Help!